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Summary
TLDRIn this vlog, the creator shares personal updates, including having the house to themselves and feeling happier as a result. They discuss a life-changing hack for improving the taste of frozen vegetables, a new stress relief supplement from Ritual that has significantly helped them, and their decision to handle their ongoing divorce proceedings with more privacy. The vlog ends with the creator preparing to go out, sharing their outfit choices, and expressing gratitude for the support from their audience.
Takeaways
- 🏠 The vlogger is now living alone and feels significantly happier as a result.
- 🎉 They are going to a dueling piano bar in San Diego with friends for a fun outing.
- 🦆 A dramatic duck rescue involving mother duck and ducklings happened in the vlogger's backyard.
- 🥦 A life-changing hack for improving the taste of frozen vegetables is shared, involving double roasting.
- 💊 The vlogger talks about a new stress relief supplement from Ritual that has greatly helped them.
- 🐱 An update on the vlogger's cats is given, mentioning Ember being in heat and both cats getting spayed soon.
- 💔 The vlogger opens up about struggling with their divorce and the difficulties they've faced since.
- 🚨 A lesson on the importance of interviewing multiple lawyers when dealing with legal issues is shared.
- 💪 The vlogger is now in a better place mentally, ready to stand up for themselves and fight for their rights.
- 🎁 The vlogger expresses gratitude for their supportive audience and shares a discount code for the Ritual stress supplement.
- 👗 The vlogger discusses their outfit choices for the night out, opting for a vibrant color to lift their spirits.
Q & A
What is the main theme of the vlog?
-The main theme of the vlog is the博主's personal updates and experiences, including living situation changes, a recent encounter with ducklings, a life hack for improving the taste of frozen vegetables, a new stress relief supplement, and reflections on the博主's divorce process.
How does the博主feel after having the house to herself?
-The博主feels significantly happier and relieved after having the house to herself, as it has been a long-term desire and has eased her nervous system, which was previously in high alert.
What unusual event occurred in the backyard?
-A mother duck and her 10 little ducklings were found swimming in the pool in the backyard. After the mother duck temporarily left, she returned for her missing duckling, which warmed the博主's heart.
What life hack does the博主share for making frozen vegetables taste better?
-The life hack involves roasting the frozen vegetables twice. First, at 350 degrees with no added ingredients for 10-12 minutes to dry them out, then patting them dry, seasoning with olive oil, and roasting again at 375 degrees for an additional 8-10 minutes to enhance the taste.
What is the new stress relief supplement the博主is taking?
-The new stress relief supplement the博主is taking is from Ritual, which contains Ashwagandha, Eleutherococcus (Siberian Ginseng), and Saffron. These ingredients are clinically studied to support normal cortisol levels and provide stress relief.
How has the博主's experience with lawyers been during the divorce process?
-The博主initially hired a lawyer without interviewing multiple options, which resulted in a costly and time-consuming mistake. After recognizing red flags and changing lawyers, the博主found a significant improvement in legal advice and support.
What advice does the博主give for those dealing with lawyers?
-The博主advises to interview multiple lawyers, even if it means paying for consultations, as it is worth it to find a lawyer who provides good legal advice and makes one feel supported.
How does the博主plan to handle the remaining divorce process?
-The博主plans to let the divorce process play out in court, presenting the evidence and facts for a judge to decide, and will focus more on starting over and sharing lessons learned.
What is the significance of the Ritual supplement for the博主?
-The Ritual stress relief supplement has been a game-changer for the博主, providing a combination of quick-release and time-released ingredients that help manage stress and promote a feeling of calm throughout the day.
What is the博主's strategy for dealing with stress and the challenges of her situation?
-The博主copes with stress and challenges by focusing on self-care, such as taking stress-relief supplements, and by reaching out to her support network, including her viewers, who provide encouragement and positive messages.
What is the博主's outlook on her future?
-The博主is optimistic about her future, believing that she will look back on this challenging period with pride and see the growth and strength she has developed through her experiences.
Outlines
🏠 Personal Update and Joy of Living Alone
The speaker begins by sharing their excitement about finally having the house to themselves after someone moved out. They express a significant improvement in their happiness and well-being due to this change. The speaker also mentions preparing for a fun outing to a favorite San Diego spot, a dueling piano bar. Additionally, they share a heartwarming story about ducklings found in their pool and their efforts to ensure the ducks' safety. A life hack for enhancing the taste of frozen vegetables is also provided, involving a two-step roasting process to remove excess moisture and improve flavor. The speaker then discusses a new stress relief supplement from Ritual, which they find beneficial, and offers a discount code for viewers.
🐾 Updates on Pets and Handling Divorce
The speaker provides updates on their pets, mentioning that Little Miss Ember is in heat and will be spayed soon, along with another pet. They share personal reflections on not handling their divorce well and the challenges of maintaining online transparency during a difficult time. The speaker admits to initially withholding information about the divorce but was forced to share the news earlier than planned. They discuss the struggles they faced during the divorce process and the importance of having a good lawyer, sharing their regret over ignoring red flags with their first lawyer. The speaker ends with a decision to share less about the divorce details and focus more on personal growth and lessons learned.
🎉 Preparing for a Night Out and Gratitude
The speaker talks about getting ready for a night out at their favorite dueling piano bar, expressing excitement for the upcoming event. They seek viewers' help in choosing an outfit, presenting two options, and ultimately deciding on a vibrant colored bodysuit that makes them happy. The speaker wraps up the vlog by thanking their audience for their support during the challenging times, referring to them as 'angels'. They also promote a stress relief supplement from Ritual, emphasizing its positive impact on their life and providing a discount code for the viewers.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡Dumping Fire
💡House to Himself
💡Dueling Piano Bar
💡Life-Changing Hack
💡Stress Relief Supplement
💡Divorce
💡Cortisol
💡Intuition
💡Self-Reflection
💡Support Network
💡Outfit Selection
Highlights
The video is part of a series where the creator shares updates on their life, which they humorously refer to as 'a dumpster fire'.
A significant update is that the creator now has the house to themselves, which they have desired for a long time.
The creator's nervous system has been in high alert, and having the house to themselves has greatly improved their well-being.
The creator shares a heartwarming story about a mother duck and her ducklings that ended up in their pool.
The creator has discovered a life-changing hack to make frozen vegetables taste as good as fresh.
The hack involves roasting the vegetables twice, first to dry them out and then with oil and seasoning for enhanced flavor.
The creator is taking a new stress relief supplement from Ritual, which contains Ashwagandha, L-Theanine, and Saffron.
The Ritual stress relief supplement is clinically studied to support normal cortisol levels and provide quick stress relief.
The creator is sharing a discount code for Ritual's stress relief supplement to help others dealing with stress.
The creator provides an update on their cats, Ember and Winnie, and their upcoming spaying procedure.
The creator discusses their feelings about the public handling of their divorce and the importance of finding the right balance in sharing personal information.
The creator reflects on the challenges of living in the same house during the divorce process and the stress it caused.
The creator shares a valuable lesson about the importance of interviewing multiple lawyers and listening to one's intuition when dealing with legal matters.
The creator expresses a newfound sense of empowerment and readiness to stand up for themselves legally.
The creator acknowledges the support of their audience and shares how their positive messages help during difficult times.
The creator ends the video by encouraging others to try the Ritual stress relief supplement and shares a 25% off code.
The creator is preparing to go out and asks viewers to help them pick an outfit for the occasion.
Transcripts
hello guys welcome back to another Vlog
Style video in my series that I like to
call my life is a dumpster fire but you
know what a dumpster Fire doesn't seem
big enough what's bigger than a dumpster
fire but this time I have some good
updates better updates because um you
might notice that I seem a bit happier
and that is because huge huge update um
I finally have the house to myself
someone has moved out and this is
literally all I've wanted dreamed of
wished for Hope for for so long you have
no idea like my nervous system has been
in high alert like unwell living in hell
for so long so um just that alone I'm
like doing 10 times better but there is
a lot of updates a lot of things to talk
about to discuss so I will sprinkle that
throughout but I'm getting ready now
because I am going with some of my best
friends to my favorite happiest place in
San Diego it's this like Dueling Piano
Bar where you request songs there's two
piano players and they kind of like
battle it out and I know it sounds weird
but it's just pure dopamine so this
morning I'm making breakfast for the
kids and I hear this weird sound I go I
look in the backyard only to see a
mother duckling and 10 little ducklings
swimming in my pool I called The Humane
Society to come get them and bring them
to a lake but then it got really
dramatic because the mama duck left and
she left behind one of the ducklings and
the duckling was in distress but
thankfully like 15 20 minutes later mama
duck came back for her missing duckling
and so that warmed my heart and you know
what I am taking this as a good lot I'm
making lines what I want to show you
guys a legitimately life-changing hack
and I know I say that a lot but for me
this has been amazing to make frozen
vegetables taste almost as good as fresh
frozen vegetables are so much easier
they're pre-washed they're pre-cut but
the taste leaves a lot to be desired
they're usually really soggy so
basically you want to roast them twice
so first you roast them at 350 just
plain with nothing on them for 10 to 12
minutes and that starts to dry them out
then you want to get a paper towel or
towel and Pat them dry remove some of
that moisture then you go in with your
olive oil your seasoning and you roast
again at 375 for an additional 8 to 10
minutes keep an eye on them cuz you
don't want them to burn but it changes
the game I wanted to do a little
medication SLS supplement update cuz
there's something new I'm taking that I
feel like is helping a lot right now
ritual came out with a stress relief
supplement you guys and oh my goodness
it is my Holy Grail this right here has
helped me so much like I cannot convey
you enough is very kindly sponsoring
this portion of the Vlog I have a
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cortisol is our stress hormone what
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even the Skin Care vitamin I'm still
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this again could not have come in a
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guys a little kitty update because
Little Miss Ember here is in heat she
was acting kind of weird she normally
doesn't meow and she's up at night
meowing into the window she's looking
for a mate but she's getting spay
they're both getting spayed on Tuesday
the other thing is she's trying to
escape desperately like anytime a door
opens she's racing out there kind of
cute cuz she normally doesn't meow at
all and she's meowing desperately into
the night Winnie my girl right here is
my little purring alarm clock she wakes
me up every morning at exactly 6:30 a.m.
she's more of like my cuddly girl and
then Ember is more playful and curious
so I wanted to sit down for a second and
have a little chat because I have just
been feeling that I have not been
handling this divorce well and it's just
been tricky for me as someone who's been
online for over 10 years and I have
shared a lot of my life with you all the
ups the Downs things that have gone on
um in my life for so many years I've
been trying to find that balance of like
sharing this major huge pivotal thing
that is going on in my life and that's
affecting me greatly without saying too
much and that has been a very hard line
to determine so from my perspective I
wasn't even initially going to share I
was getting divorced right away I wanted
to take time to process let my kids kind
of understand what was going on and that
information got leaked before I even had
a chance to share it so I made a video
because I would rather you all hear that
coming from me and then after that point
I largely said absolutely nothing for
many many months like six seven months I
I was sharing here and there that I'm
not doing well and that it's been hard
but I didn't say anything really beyond
that and what you didn't see and might
not understand is that in that time
period from filing for a divorce until
recently things were so bad
significantly worse I would say than
even leading up to the divorce which I
was not anticipating I was not
anticipating I'm having to continue to
live in the same house and all of the
things that transpired after the fact
like there is only so much one person
could take and I was pushed and have
been pushed to full fully a Breaking
Point and I'm not saying what those
things were but I guess the bigger thing
that I've learned and that I've realized
self-reflecting is I need to let this
all play out in court this needs to be
in front of a judge the evidence and the
facts and the truth on the table and let
a judge decide and um that is kind of
what I'm doing moving forward is I'm
sharing a lot less of the details here
I'll still share how I'm doing and how
the process is progressing but more so
I'll just be focusing on starting over
and lessons I've learned if anyone could
take something away from my mistakes
like for example huge lesson if you are
dealing with lawyers in any capacity
whether it be for a divorce or anything
else interview multiple lawyers I hired
the first lawyer who I talked to I don't
care if it's a pain and they you know
you have to pay for each consultation
that do it is worth it cuz I made a huge
mistake in the lawyer that I hired and I
saw the red flags pretty early on she
did something initially early on that my
gut told me did not feel good was not
right and I ignored that and I thought
in this past 10 years the one thing that
I should have learned is how to identify
red flag and take that seriously and not
ignore it but I had never dealt with
lawyers before and I didn't know what
was normal and I kind of gaset myself
like okay no this is just how all
lawyers are and that was a very
expensive very timec consuming mistake
but now that I'm with a better lawyer I
realize oh my goodness night and day
difference that it makes to have someone
who actually knows what they're doing
and is giving you good legal advice so
that's another very expensive mistake
that I want to share so maybe anyone out
there can learn from that like
everything in the past 10 years should
have told me if something doesn't feel
right you need to listen to your
intuition you need to acknowledge those
red flags and know your worth and move
on so now hopefully I will get the
message in all aspects of my life I do
finally feel like I'm in good hands I'm
ready to fight to the full extent of the
law I'm not scared anymore like I've
been pushed to a point that I'm standing
up for myself finally for the first time
probably in my life like I realized I am
a doormat of a human being a lot of you
are out there saying like in a couple
years time you will look back and you'll
be so proud of yourself that you battled
through and you got through it and
you'll be doing so much better so I am
doing this for my future self so that's
where I'm coming from I'm just wanted to
get that off my chest so anyway I need
to get dressed now to go to the sh house
and hopefully have a nice night and
leave my troubles and drama behind for a
few hours okay I'm getting ready to head
out and I need you to help me pick an
outfit to wear so this is a new like
bodysuit that came in love the color I
don't even know what to call this maybe
PE
but love the vibrant color it is a
little bit lower cut than I would like
but I do like that it has the cap
sleeves and I can wear a normal brow
with it that's always bonus points so
this is option number one and then I'll
show you the other and this is option
number two I can also wear a normal bra
with this just comfortable I love this
color as well so I'm not sure I'm
thinking that I'm going to go with the
other cuz that color was just making me
happy nice and vibrant I've been really
into wearing more color lately so I
think I'm going to go with that I need
to like put on my accessories jacket
head out the
door time we are the champions my
friend and we are
keep to the
end around the world speak the
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language
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let the vition of
theate deep down into your I'm going to
wrap up this Vlog here thank you for
being here with me I call you all my
angels because you have been helping and
supporting me through this process more
than you'll even know I save all the
nice emails and DMS and messages that I
get into a folder on my phone and when
I'm feeling bad and down I go through
that and it really helps me so I really
appreciate you all and also if anyone
else out there is dealing with stress I
feel like you have higher cortisol
levels and you want to try the new
ritual stress relief supplement I cannot
recommend enough and I have a 25% off
code that I will have down in the
description box I definitely recommend
trying it it's one of those things you
will know pretty much right away if it
works for you as well as it has for me
saffron I think was the missing
ingredient in my life so with all of
that said thanks again so much for
watching and I will see you soon with a
new
video bye bye bye guys
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