When A Woman Is USING YOU She Will Tell You These 7 SWEET LIES!
TLDRThe video script discusses seven 'sweet lies' that a woman might tell if she is using a man, including expressing a false sense of security and compliments that are followed by requests. It highlights the differences in how male and female brains respond to positive and negative stimuli, respectively. The script offers advice on identifying whether a woman's actions are genuine or manipulative, and suggests resources for those seeking to understand relationships better.
Takeaways
- 💬 She might claim to feel safe with you, but if it's only verbal and not backed by actions, she could be using you.
- 📱 If conversations are one-dimensional (text or calls) and she avoids meeting in person, she might see you as a temporary placeholder.
- 👍 Compliments like strength, attractiveness, or success can be manipulative tools to get something from you.
- 🎁 Be wary of compliments followed by requests; this could indicate an ulterior motive.
- 💓 Saying 'I love you' might not always be genuine; it could be a tactic to avoid awkwardness or to further a selfish agenda.
- 🦸♂️ Being called a 'hero' can be flattering, but it might be used to manipulate you into doing things for her.
- 😔 If she accuses you of not caring or loving her, especially when you have shown otherwise, she might be trying to manipulate you.
- 🚫 Setting boundaries or saying 'no' should not be met with accusations of not caring; this is a red flag.
- 💌 If she often uses negative experiences to influence your actions, it's a sign of manipulation rather than genuine affection.
- 🔍 To discern sincerity, observe if her actions align with her words and if she respects your boundaries and contributions.
Q & A
What is the first sign that a woman might be using a man according to the script?
-The first sign mentioned in the script is if a woman frequently tells a man that she loves their conversations, but only engages through text or phone calls without ever wanting to meet in person. This could indicate that the man is just a placeholder for someone else and she is using him for attention.
How do men and women's brains differ in their reactions to stimuli according to the script?
-The script suggests that the male brain reacts more to positive stimuli, while the female brain reacts more to negative stimuli. This difference in brain response can affect how men and women interact in relationships and perceive each other's actions.
What is the purpose of a woman telling a man positive compliments if she is using him?
-If a woman is using a man, she might give him positive compliments to boost his ego and make him more susceptible to her requests or manipulations. The intention behind these compliments is not genuine appreciation but rather a means to get something she wants.
What is a common request that might follow a compliment when a woman is using a man?
-A common request that might follow a compliment when a woman is using a man could be asking for material items, financial assistance, or help with tasks such as fixing a fence. The compliment serves as a manipulation tactic to make the man more likely to agree to her requests.
What does the script suggest about a woman who frequently tells a man he's an amazing lover?
-The script suggests that if a woman frequently tells a man he's an amazing lover, especially if it's accompanied by a request or a manipulation, it might be an indication that she is using him for her own satisfaction or to get her way.
What are some reasons a woman might say 'I love you' when it's not true, according to the script?
-The script suggests that a woman might say 'I love you' when it's not true to avoid awkwardness after the man has said it first, or because she hopes to feel that way in the future. However, if she says it as part of a selfish agenda, such as to get something from the man, then she is likely using him.
Why is the phrase 'you're my hero' considered effective in the context of manipulation as per the script?
-The phrase 'you're my hero' is considered effective in the context of manipulation because it appeals to a man's desire to be seen as a protector and a significant figure in a woman's life. This can make him more likely to do what she wants, whether it's buying her something or helping her with a problem.
What is the 'bonus phrase' mentioned in the script that might indicate a woman is using a man?
-The 'bonus phrase' mentioned in the script is 'you don't care about me, or you don't love me.' This phrase might be used by a woman to manipulate a man when she doesn't get her way or when he sets boundaries, suggesting that his actions or refusal indicates a lack of care or love.
How can a man determine if a woman is sincere when she uses certain phrases, according to the script?
-The script suggests that a man can determine a woman's sincerity by observing her actions and the context in which she uses certain phrases. If her words are consistently followed by requests or if she focuses on his 'hot buttons,' it might indicate manipulation. However, if her declarations are backed up by genuine care and respect for his boundaries and well-being, it's more likely that she is sincere.
What advice does the script give to men who frequently fall for users?
-The script advises men who frequently fall for users to seek education and awareness about such situations. It suggests a program called 'wake up to love' for those who want to better understand and avoid being used in relationships.
What is the final recommendation the script offers to those who want to know if a woman truly loves them?
-The script recommends that those who want to know if a woman truly loves them should watch another video by the same author, which provides insights on how to discern genuine love from manipulation and other insincere expressions.
Outlines
💬 Understanding the Seven Sweet Lies in Relationships
This paragraph delves into the concept of 'sweet lies' that a person might tell if they are using their partner. It discusses how men and women's brains react differently to stimuli, with men being more affected by positive experiences and women by negative ones. The paragraph outlines seven common phrases that might be lies if the speaker has a hidden agenda, such as praising the partner's physical attributes or conversation skills to gain their attention. It warns readers to be aware of the subsequent 'ask' that might follow these compliments, which could be a manipulation tactic. The speaker aims to educate the listener on how to distinguish between genuine affection and manipulative behavior in relationships.
💔 Identifying Signs of Manipulation in Relationships
The second paragraph continues the discussion on relationship dynamics by focusing on how individuals might manipulate their partners through phrases like 'I love you' or 'you don't care about me.' It explains that these phrases can be used as tools for control when the speaker does not get their way or when they want something from the partner. The paragraph emphasizes the importance of recognizing these tactics and maintaining healthy boundaries in relationships. It also suggests a program for individuals who might be prone to falling for manipulative behavior, encouraging them to seek guidance on how to identify and avoid such situations.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡Sweet Lies
💡Biological Response
💡Ego Pumping
💡Hidden Agenda
💡Manipulation
💡Relationship Dynamics
💡Red Flags
💡Genuine Affection
💡Boundaries
💡Self-Interest
💡Wake Up to Love Program
Highlights
The male brain reacts more to positive stimuli than a female brain.
Women are more affected by negative experiences than men.
Seven sweet lies women may tell if they are using you.
Compliments like 'You're so strong' or 'You're so handsome' can be manipulative.
Watch for an 'ask' following a compliment; it might indicate an ulterior motive.
If a woman frequently compliments your sexual prowess, she might be using you.
Saying 'I love you' can be a manipulation tactic rather than a genuine expression of feelings.
Calling you a 'hero' might be a way to exploit your desire to be a hero.
The phrase 'You don't care about me' or 'You don't love me' can be used to manipulate.
If a woman expects you to pay for her past choices, it's a red flag.
The video offers a program to help identify and avoid toxic relationships.
There's a video on how to know if a woman truly loves you.
Signs of sincerity include consistency in actions and words.
If a woman is only engaging with you via text or calls, she might not be genuinely interested.
A woman might use you as a placeholder while seeking attention from someone else.
Biological differences between men and women affect how they respond to relationship dynamics.
Genuine care for a partner involves complimenting them without an attached agenda.
When a woman is using you, she may focus on your 'hot buttons' to manipulate you.