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Summary
TLDRIn this engaging video, the speaker shares their excitement and nervousness about finding out the gender of their second child. They recount the anticipation leading up to the big reveal, the unique way they chose to discover the gender with a cake, and their elation upon learning they're expecting a girl. The video also touches on the personal challenges and joys of pregnancy, reflecting on the differences between their first and second experience.
Takeaways
- ð The speaker is experiencing a mix of emotions, feeling both excited and nervous about a significant event.
- ð® They recently had a meal consisting of tacos, curly fries, and a water cup, which seems to be a comfort food choice.
- ð€° The speaker mentions taking a test six days ago, hinting at a possible pregnancy test.
- ð©ââïž There is a mention of a nurse, Monica, who is connected to the speaker's OB and has been in contact since a previous pregnancy.
- ð° The speaker is planning a gender reveal event using a cake, adding an element of surprise and anticipation.
- ð³ The event takes place at a park, with a description of setting up a picnic and the surrounding environment.
- ð¶ The gender reveal outcome is a girl, which brings joy and excitement to the speaker and their family.
- ð¹ The speaker bought flowers for the occasion, adding a touch of celebration to the event.
- ð€° The speaker discusses the physical changes and sensations experienced during pregnancy, such as a growing belly and stretching ligaments.
- ðšâð©âð§ The family is looking forward to welcoming a second child, a sister for their existing daughter, and the speaker reflects on the emotions tied to this addition.
- ð The speaker acknowledges the differences between the first and second pregnancy, both emotionally and in terms of expectations.
Q & A
What is the main event the speaker is anticipating in the video?
-The speaker is anticipating the gender reveal of their second child.
How did the speaker and their partner decide to find out the baby's gender?
-They decided to do a gender reveal with a cake provided by the nurse who had their test results.
Who is Monica and what is her role in the story?
-Monica is the nurse who has the test results and is also the same nurse who assisted the speaker during their previous pregnancy. She is the one who brings the gender reveal cake.
How does the speaker feel about the gender reveal process?
-The speaker feels nervous and excited about the gender reveal, as well as being eager to know the result quickly.
What is the significance of the speaker's previous experience with their first child's gender reveal?
-The speaker did not have a gender reveal for their first child and preferred to wait until the birth, but for the second child, they felt the need to find out the gender in advance.
How does the speaker plan to handle the secrecy of the gender reveal?
-The speaker plans to keep the gender a secret for as long as possible, only revealing it after they start showing in pregnancy.
Where does the speaker go for the gender reveal?
-The speaker goes to a park to do a little picnic setup for the gender reveal.
What is the speaker's reaction to finding out the gender of their second child?
-The speaker is excited and overwhelmed after finding out that they are having a girl, their second daughter.
How does the speaker describe their feelings about having a second child?
-The speaker was initially afraid of having a second child due to concerns about postpartum depression and how they would love another baby, but they were reassured that their heart would double and they felt excited.
What is the speaker's plan for future pregnancies?
-The speaker mentions that if they have a third child, they would likely wait until the birth for the gender reveal, as they did with their first child.
How does the speaker describe the difference between their first and second pregnancies?
-The speaker feels that the second pregnancy is much more emotional and different from the first one in many ways.
Outlines
ð¥ Introducing the Video
The video begins with the speaker expressing excitement and a sense of disbelief, as they are unsure of when the audience will watch the video. They mention that today is a special day, but struggle to articulate exactly what they are feeling. The speaker talks about their routine, mentioning food and the weather, and shares that they have a significant event coming up involving a test result that they have been anxiously waiting for. They also mention a person named Monica, who seems to be a healthcare professional involved in the speaker's care, and express gratitude towards her.
ð The Big Reveal
The speaker dives into the details of the anticipated event, which is the revelation of the gender of their second child. They explain that they took a test six days ago and the results came in the previous day from Monica, the same nurse who assisted during their first pregnancy. The speaker and their partner, Markus, decide to use a cake as a creative way to discover the gender, with the color of the cake indicating whether it's a boy or a girl. They plan a picnic in the park to celebrate and share the moment, emphasizing the importance of keeping the news a secret until they are ready to announce it.
ð³ A Picnic in the Park
The speaker and Markus head to the park to set up for the gender reveal. They discuss the logistics of finding a spot, buying flowers, and preparing for the moment when they will cut the gender-reveal cake. The speaker expresses nervousness and excitement, and they both engage in playful banter about the anticipation of the big moment. They also discuss the logistics of parking and finding the perfect location within the park, emphasizing the desire to make the moment special and memorable.
ð° The Gender Reveal
The moment of truth arrives as the speaker and Markus prepare to cut the gender-reveal cake. They discuss the process, their hopes, and fears, and the emotional weight of the moment. The speaker shares their intuition that the baby is a girl, but also expresses that they would be happy with either outcome. The actual reveal happens, confirming their suspicion of having a second girl. They share their reactions, emotions, and immediate thoughts about the new addition to their family, highlighting the joy and excitement that comes with this news.
ð€° Reflecting on Pregnancy and Future
In the final paragraph, the speaker reflects on the pregnancy journey so far, comparing it to their first experience. They discuss physical changes, emotional shifts, and the challenges of expecting a second child. The speaker also talks about their fears and concerns, such as postpartum depression and the capacity to love another child. They mention the support from friends and the reassurance that their love will grow with the addition of another child. The video ends with the speaker expressing gratitude to their audience for their support and sharing a glimpse of their growing baby bump, leaving the viewers with a sense of anticipation for the next chapter in their family's story.
Mindmap
Keywords
ð¡Gender reveal
ð¡Allergies
ð¡Pregnancy
ð¡Emotions
ð¡Family
ð¡Secrecy
ð¡Tradition
ð¡Parks
ð¡Support network
ð¡Celebration
ð¡Parenting
Highlights
The speaker expresses uncertainty about the video's reception and timing.
The speaker mentions their disbelief and surreal feeling about a recent event.
A detailed account of the speaker's meal and their conflicting feelings of hunger.
The speaker talks about their partner and a potential plan involving them.
The speaker discusses turning off the air due to allergies and a preference for clear water.
The speaker mentions the good weather and its contrast with the main topic of discussion.
The speaker shares a personal story about taking a pregnancy test and waiting for results.
The speaker expresses gratitude towards Monica, a healthcare professional they've kept in contact with.
The speaker describes a unique way of receiving test results through a 'cake'.
The speaker and their partner prepare for a gender reveal with a sense of nervous anticipation.
The speaker talks about keeping the pregnancy a secret and their desire for privacy.
The speaker discusses their plans for a picnic and the challenges of finding a location.
The speaker shares the emotional moment of the gender reveal and their reaction.
The speaker talks about their feelings towards having a second child and overcoming fears.
The speaker expresses excitement about the future and readiness for the new addition to their family.
The speaker reflects on the differences between their first and second pregnancies.
Transcripts
all right hello guys and once again oh I
don't know when you guys are going to
see this video so I don't even know how
to start this or end this or like any of
that
so today oh my God I don't know what to
say so it's like doesn't feel real still
doesn't feel real
um I don't know what to
say what what are we doing all right so
first of all I by for jaction vgs two
tacos curly fries water cup hits a spot
every time probably just going to eat
one i s I was like hungry but no I'm not
hungry your him
SN H's out I should cck her window now
she
is for sure hope she doesn't wake up um
I turn the air off cuz it gives me
allergies as I didn't get red water I
don't want that me talking about
everything so the weather is really good
it's kind of everything but the point
all right guys so today is a
day me forcing marus to come along to
everything not come along but he's like
dude he wants it his way I want my way
but I'm like you know what you need to
get it over with I'm like I just need to
know I need to know now so we took the
test about a week ago not even a week 6
days
ago and the results came in yesterday
and then the nurse is the same one as
H's so oh when I what is it for my OB
it's the same same doctor same nurse um
for when I had
hily is that how you say it well I was
pregnant with h yeah you guys get it so
she's really really cool um we've kept
in contact here and there since then
super super nice so shout out to Monica
thank you thank you um so she got the
results in yesterday she messaged me and
I was like run now so I asked her I was
like hey can you get me the cake um so I
don't see anything like I don't have any
temptation to look at anything read
anything open anything and luckily it
hasn't even got the results haven't gone
to my
portal um so there's no temptation there
not yet they don't go into my portal
till tomorrow and I was like perfect
timing I don't get to see anything so
she's doing the cake she's meeting us
here um and we're going to do the cake
tradeoff and I so nervous I don't even
know what the cake looks like I know
nothing um but yeah I'm so so excited
she's going to give us the cake and then
we're going to
go why is this so nering Markus just
staring at
um it's so
nerve-wracking what do you think really
yes it
is like today is the day we find out
that's crazy that is
crazy insane I'm not ready my stomach's
like turning I
swear I'm not even hungry my food's
right here me just talking
all right
so yeah we're going to find out right
now in a few minutes waiting on her
text then we're going to go to the park
do a little nice setup I think I have to
go buy flowers first figure out where to
buy
flowers like a little picnic date
thing so yeah keep you guys updated let
me eat really quick and any last words
let's get it I know was like babe please
please talk me out of this and he's like
yeah there's no talking out he's like
we're just going to go girl it was you
that wanted to do this today I know I
just want to get it over
with I honestly just want to get over it
like it's there the temptation's there I
don't want to wait anymore it's the
second kid so I'm like let's just pull
through with it hurry hurry and the
crazy part is nobody knows I told the N
if she was able to do it for me because
nobody else knows so we're trying to
keep it a secret for as long as possible
um pretty much until I'm showing um
yeah R uhhuh
Rubble okay her and her pupp we should
go up there
where there like the back just be like
the sky that' be nice but can we make it
up there I can make
it with all the stuff okay so guys cake
is in the front seat should we just like
pound it right now Marcus literally was
like L and ches thought to
win um so can in the park it is a drive
to come in here and don't even know
where we're going what we're doing but
seeing good reviews about the place it
looks pretty green for the most part so
that's a plus it just rained a lot too
so yeah cuz of the rain like Mar said um
so it's going to be pretty green it's
just trying to find a parking spot it's
pretty
packed I mean there's not a lot of
people but there's like three spots and
those are taken so you got to go to the
next location uh yeah we're not
hiking definitely not so right now we
are on the Hun for a nice little spot
and it is like 3:40 so sun goes down at
5:00 and park closes at 5:00 so we kind
of get we got to get the ball
rolling but we're good on time so now we
just look for a place we just like or we
just do it in the car just
kidding
all right guys I'm so out of breath
finally found a location
[Music]
hola all right so we got these
flowers the cake
pnic all right moment of
truth sorry I have so of breath
hopefully no one goes down this hill cuz
we'll be damned all right we got to
hurry
okay this is so cute
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cheese
me me
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go
behind
okay
okay oh all right
hopefully we get this oh my God is it
getting yeah I made
sure
ready oh any last words how do you say
it right before you know the gender not
like it's a bad thing but oh let's wait
for this
car like any last words what do you
think it is what hopefully you guys
could hear us if not sorry honestly I
don't mind what it is now B I feel like
like yeah I honestly I think it's a girl
just cuz we have the girl but we would
love
the the peir you know boy
girl all right ready wait any
wor just do this oh I'm not ready are
you mama don't look when you push it
down okay okay
Mama hold
on oh my God my
heart okay should we do it next to each
other we close our eyes
and
then okay we put it in we have to close
our eyes and then look it at at the same
time when when you're pulling it out you
could already see it I know but push it
in Close Our Eyes hold on push it in
close our eyes and then pull it
out and then when do we open our eyes
we'll just count down okay we'll open
our eyes when we twist it like this and
then we count down okay when you twist
say ready okay one one your eyes two I'm
going just make sure one wait should I
do it here over here
do one two three
closed coming up hold on I'm
that done all right mom put three I'm
not okay one two
three I knew it okay
thinking oh
my
you no
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for come come
here this is insane
nutties nutties
nutties oh my God I knew
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it this
is
girl
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how bro how are we going to oh my God so
much what are they hormones in one he
this is
crazy
this
is that's there's no this is
crazy wish she
look
I knew
it
C girl
Dad it's exciting it is super exciting
another little
girl it's crazy cuz I never imagined
what she was going to look like and now
she's here but then it's like now like
what is they girl going to look like
that's are they going to look like are
they not are they CRA I don't think they
are it's going to be hard cuz of her
hair cuz of her
hair hey it's good
Let no I got in my
eyes that's
crazy how am I going to tell my mom I
tell her
turn off
first now to get rid of all
evidence um this is what's left we had
to throw the cake away because it was a
lot of bugs so I'm like so so scared I
even eat that and I'm like wait there's
even like little bugs in here I don't
know you can see but the cake was really
good super good and the frosting was
really good how loved it was picking at
it oh you can see the little flowers can
we keep
this wait can we keep one you want what
what do we do with it it would have
probably like rot no or like
mold I can't I can't get myself throw
away me I'm a hoarder had to throw in
the freezer no
um I don't know I feel so bad throwing
him away
but what matters is in here I show you
guys my belly actually hold on let me
get rid of this and I'll get back to
that little update the room's a mess did
laundry today and mine and
H's so we're in the middle of that like
everything's like kind of organized just
to put it away where it goes
so I a breath to it is belly time
guys
not that big but looks like a really
good
um yeah oh it hurts a lot down here but
Google says not even asking my doctor
Google says it's like I say your
ligament is
stretching that's why it hurts like sore
and I swear I do not I'll show you guys
in the mornings but I do not wake up
looking like this like my belly's like
literally like this in the mornings my
skinnier literally and then by the end
of the day it's like just wants to
pop out pop out
season you guys thank you guys so so
much
um so excited I literally had a loss of
words I told Marcus I just feel so
overwhelmed and I've never been the type
to care about gender like I really don't
um with hily I don't know if I said this
before I didn't want a gender review I
didn't want a boo show nothing I want
like to wait till birth so if we have a
third one I think that's what we're
going to do but I like get the second
one I kind I'm like I have to find out I
have to know so um yeah second
baby here we go it's crazy cuz I already
know what's coming when is coming and
I'm like I feel like the second one not
that it's harder but like you're just
playing mind games with yourself because
you already know the process so um yeah
second baby here we come I'm ready for
you baby girl oh my second baby girl
that's crazy and I've been so afraid of
having a second baby for um what
say cuz of postart of depression and on
top of that like how do I love another
baby but I heard that your heart
literally just
doubles
and yeah and I swear right before I
found out I was preg I was like have my
go for the second go for the second blah
blah blah and I had friends who were
already on their second which I had hily
around the same time they're like this
is your sign this is do it you look so
good with stop it and
boom yeah guys all right thank you guys
so much for
everything it's so emotional I feel like
I'm so so emotional and this pregnancy
is so so much different than the first
one in so many ways and I'll fill you
guys in on another Vlog but thank you
guys so much for watching appreciate you
guys love you guys and we see you guys
on the next video
bye one two 3 closed
close coming up hold on
that hold on all right I'm fli already
I'm not okay one two
three I knew it
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oh my
God
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speee
come here come
here
[Music]
she this is
insane n
n
pH photos oh my God I knew
it
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no
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