We're Married | Smosh Mouth 44
Summary
TLDRIn this engaging episode of 'Smosh Mouth,' hosts Shayne and Amanda are joined by special guest Courtney Miller. The trio discusses the recent elopement of Shayne and Courtney, sharing anecdotes and the story behind their wedding. They delve into the challenges of maintaining privacy in the public eye, the dynamic of their relationship on set, and their decision to announce their marriage on April Fools' Day, which added an element of prankster humor typical of the Smosh brand. The conversation also touches on the couple's experience with fans' reactions, their approach to sharing personal life details, and the impact of being in the public eye on their relationship. Additionally, they explore the concept of individuality within a relationship and the importance of maintaining personal identity. The episode is filled with humor, personal insights, and a genuine exchange of thoughts on marriage, privacy, and life in the entertainment industry.
Takeaways
- π The hosts Shayne and Amanda, along with their guest Courtney Miller, discuss their recent marriage, which was kept private for a while.
- π€£ They humorously reflect on how people were unsure about their relationship status, even after they were married, leading to funny comments and speculations.
- πΈ Courtney shares the story of how they eloped and the small, intimate wedding they had, including the challenges like almost not getting Shayne's suit and forgetting the bouquet.
- πΉ The couple talks about the significance of getting married in the same place as Amanda, and how they enjoyed the beauty of Santa Barbara and its botanic garden full of poppies.
- π Amanda reveals her last-minute dress switch and how they managed to coordinate their outfits perfectly for the wedding, despite the small hitch with the boutonniere.
- π€ There's a discussion about the pressure of being in the public eye and the couple's decision to keep their relationship private to maintain a boundary between their professional and personal lives.
- π The conversation touches on the couple's experience with wearing their wedding rings and how they've adjusted to this new aspect of their lives.
- πΈοΈ They address the intense scrutiny and speculation from fans and the internet community, sharing their feelings about the lack of privacy and the challenges it poses.
- π Amanda shares advice about marriage, emphasizing the importance of communication and apologizing even when you feel you are right, to maintain a healthy relationship.
- π± Shayne and Courtney reveal that they are cat parents to two siblings, Bones and Birdie, showcasing their softer, more personal side outside of their professional lives.
- π The hosts tease the next episode, which will feature a discussion about 'Smosh: The Sitcom' with its writers Syd and Olivia, promising more fun and chaos.
Q & A
Who are the hosts of the 'Smosh Mouth' podcast?
-The hosts of the 'Smosh Mouth' podcast are Shayne and Amanda.
Why did Shayne and Amanda decide to elope?
-Shayne and Amanda decided to elope to keep their wedding private and intimate, away from the public eye.
Where did Shayne and Amanda get married?
-Shayne and Amanda got married in Santa Barbara, at the same place Amanda had previously been married.
Why did Courtney almost wear a pink jumpsuit to the podcast?
-Courtney considered wearing a pink jumpsuit as a playful nod to a previous incident involving Angela and Chanse, but ultimately decided against it out of consideration for the audience.
How did the audience find out about Shayne and Amanda's marriage?
-Shayne and Amanda announced their marriage on April Fools' Day through social media, which led to a mix of reactions due to the prank-like nature of the announcement.
What was the public's initial reaction to the announcement of Shayne and Amanda's marriage?
-Initially, many people thought it was a prank due to the timing of the announcement on April Fools' Day. However, after the couple shared their wedding photos, the public began to accept and celebrate the news.
Why did Shayne have a stressful time regarding his suit for the wedding?
-Shayne had a stressful time because he had a custom suit made, which was supposed to be ready well in advance, but it got delayed and was almost lost by FedEx. He only received it less than 24 hours before the wedding.
How did the couple handle their wedding rings in their daily lives?
-Amanda is not a 'ring person' and sometimes wears her ring on a necklace instead. Shayne wears his ring daily but takes it off for activities like working out, swimming, or eating messy food to prevent damage or loss.
What was the significance of the brown suit Shayne wore for the wedding?
-The brown suit was significant because it was a custom-made suit that Shayne had been looking forward to wearing. It fit him well and matched the aesthetic of the courthouse where they were married.
How did the couple feel about their privacy after the announcement of their marriage?
-Both Shayne and Amanda expressed a sense of relief at being able to control their narrative after the announcement. However, they also discussed the challenges of maintaining privacy and the emotional adjustment that came with sharing such personal news with the public.
What are Shayne and Amanda's plans for their content following their marriage?
-Shayne and Amanda have no plans to create couple-centric content. They intend to continue their work as individual performers, respecting their privacy and maintaining the dynamic that their fans are familiar with.
Outlines
π Introduction and Surprise Guest
The video begins with a light-hearted atmosphere as Shayne and Amanda, the hosts of 'Smosh Mouth,' welcome their audience. They introduce their special guest, Courtney Miller, to the show. There's a playful banter about a potential mix-up with another person named Angela, followed by a discussion about the hosts' marriage, which they had kept private. The conversation also touches on the dynamic within the Smosh team and their respect for each other's privacy.
π Discussing the Elopement and Wedding Photos
The hosts and Courtney delve into the details of their elopement, sharing the location and the intimate nature of their wedding. They discuss the beautiful setting of Santa Barbara, the beach, and the small size of their event. The group also talks about the wedding photos, including a serendipitous heart shape they formed in one of the shots and the story behind the bouquet made from courthouse flowers.
π€΅ The Suit Fiasco and Wedding Outfits
Shayne recounts the stressful experience of having his custom suit for the wedding nearly lost by FedEx. He describes the last-minute pickup and the relief of finding it fits perfectly. The conversation shifts to Amanda's choice of wedding dress, which she decided to change to a white dress she felt more comfortable in. They also discuss the color coordination and the importance of looking their best for the occasion.
πΈ Post-Wedding Plans and Public Announcement
The group discusses their post-wedding plans, including the decision to announce their marriage on April Fools' Day as a prank. They share their experience on the set of 'Smosh: The Sitcom' when they made the announcement and the immediate aftermath, including the crew's reaction. The hosts also talk about the podcast countdown and the improvised episode by Angela and Chanse.
π Wedding Rings and Public Perception
The conversation moves to the topic of wedding rings, with Shayne and Amanda sharing their experiences and feelings about wearing them. They discuss the public's reaction to the absence or presence of the rings in various photos. The group also addresses the challenge of maintaining privacy and the impact of public scrutiny on their relationship.
π¬ Smosh's Golden Era and Personal Boundaries
The hosts reflect on Smosh's current successful phase and the strong ensemble dynamic among the cast. They emphasize the importance of preserving their individuality and the friendship that defines Smosh. The discussion includes the challenges of being public figures and the need to protect their personal lives fromθΏεΊ¦ exposure.
π Handling Privacy and Public Interest
The group talks about the balance between sharing personal life details and maintaining privacy. They discuss the relief of being open about their relationship and the speculation that came with it. The conversation also touches on the emotional aspect of going public and the decision-making process behind sharing certain aspects of their lives with their fans.
π Joking About Marriage and Future Plans
In a lighter vein, the hosts joke about their marriage, with playful banter about their cats and how they relate to their relationship. They discuss their cats' personalities and how they've bonded with each other. The conversation wraps up with a look forward to their future together and a humorous exchange about their roles as cat parents.
π Final Thoughts and Upcoming Episode Tease
The hosts conclude the episode with gratitude for their guest and the audience. They tease the next episode, which will feature the writers of 'Smosh: The Sitcom,' promising a fun and chaotic discussion. They sign off with a light-hearted and affectionate tone, expressing their appreciation for the support they've received.
Mindmap
Keywords
π‘Smosh Mouth
π‘Elopement
π‘Privacy
π‘Content Creation
π‘Social Media
π‘Public Figure
π‘Announcement
π‘Fandom
π‘Couple Content
π‘Dynamic
π‘Personal Life
Highlights
Shayne and Amanda, hosts of 'Smosh Mouth', welcome a special guest, Courtney Miller, to discuss her recent marriage to Shayne.
Courtney and Shayne reveal they eloped and got married at the same place as Amanda, keeping their relationship private for a long time before the announcement.
The couple discusses the dynamic at Smosh, where everyone knew about their relationship but respected their privacy.
They share stories about their wedding day, including a close call with Shayne's suit and the impromptu bouquet and boutonniere made from courthouse flowers.
Amanda shares her experience of being married for almost a year, emphasizing the importance of communication and saying sorry in a relationship.
The hosts touch on the topic of public figures and privacy, discussing the line between sharing personal life for content and maintaining personal boundaries.
Courtney and Shayne talk about their decision to not create couples content, wanting to keep their relationship sacred and separate from their work.
The podcast features a discussion on how being a comedian can affect people's perception of your personal life, with some thinking pranks are real announcements.
Shayne and Courtney share their thoughts on wearing wedding rings, with personal preferences affecting how often they wear them.
The couple reflects on the public's reaction to their wedding announcement, noting the unexpected amount of love and support they received.
Amanda gives advice on marriage, suggesting that couples should be open about their needs and willing to problem-solve together.
The hosts discuss the challenges of being in the public eye, including dealing with stalkers and the fear of sharing too much personal information online.
Shayne, Courtney, and Amanda share their experiences with Reddit, highlighting how it can be a valuable source for recommendations and community insights.
The podcast ends with a teaser for the next episode, which will feature a discussion with the writers of 'Smosh: The Sitcom', Syd and Olivia.
Transcripts
(chill music)
- Hello, welcome to "Smosh Mouth".
I'm Shayne.
- And I'm Amanda.
And we have a very, very special guest.
You guys know her.
It is Courtney Miller.
- Hello.
- Yeah.
- Yeah.
- You guys have been waiting for this one for a little bit.
- Yep.
- It would've been really funny if it was Angela
and Chanse again. - Yeah.
(Courtney laughs)
I should have worn my pink jumpsuit today, but no.
- I thought about it.
I have my limes shirt in my bag, but I was like, "No."
- No. We can't.
We can't do that to you guys.
- Not again.
- It could have been Angela, Chanse, and then Courtney here,
and they just go about it.
- Oh my god.
- That's true. That's true.
- That would've been really cool.
- Yeah.
- Yeah, so look, yeah, we're married.
- We're married.
- [Shayne] We're married. - Whoa. What?
(Shayne laughs)
Dude, I had no idea.
(Courtney laughs)
- There are people still,
and I mean, the reason we were like,
"Okay, we need to actually talk about it a little bit,"
is there are still comments of people like,
"Wait, are they?
"Are they actually?"
It's been a month, and there's still people who are unsure.
- Guys, they're married.
- I saw a comment on my post yesterday on Instagram
that was like, "My friend thinks you guys are dating.
"L them."
(everyone laughs)
- Major L.
(Courtney laughs)
- Well, people didn't know that you guys were dating,
and then they found out that you guys were married.
- Yeah, we didn't tell anyone.
- Outside of,
like everyone in our world knew that we were together.
- Oh, yeah.
- Yeah, 'cause some people thought we didn't tell anyone.
- No. Everyone here knew.
- So yeah, I knew. Mm-hmm.
(everyone laughs)
- You knew fully.
- I knew.
We all knew, but we were all like,
"Respectfully, it's your privacy."
- Yeah, no, and it shows, like when people talk about like,
"Oh, it's such a cool dynamic that everyone at Smosh has,"
I think it was such proof that like everyone knew
and everyone respected our privacy.
- Yep.
- And that's such a cool thing.
Like, everyone, not just cast,
like all the crew, everyone who works at Smosh knew
and just was like, "Okay, cool."
- Yep.
- Great. - Yeah.
- So yeah.
But so, I don't know where to begin.
- [Courtney] I know.
- There's a lot. There's a lot.
It's kind of cool that you guys are coming on
and doing this episode.
Like, it's cool because yes, you guys released
that you were married on April Fools,
and then we had the pod with us, AKA Chanse and Angela.
People were like, "Wait, what?"
And I think it was really fun 'cause it was a prank,
but it was also just like we're having fun
with telling this news. - Oh my god. Yeah.
- So...
- And you guys recorded that podcast-
- Before.
- That was like the day before we left, right?
- Yeah.
- And we eloped specifically.
- I think it was like a week or so before.
- [Courtney] Oh.
- I think it was a little bit before.
- Time is so blurry from that era
because we were meanwhile in the thick
of shooting so much stuff,
including the promo for the live show you created.
- Yeah.
It's been a busy month,
and that's part of the reason why so many episodes
of "Smosh Mouth" were shot like a while ago.
- Yeah.
- And so people have been like, "Wait, okay.
"I can tell this one was shot before they were married."
(Courtney laughs)
This one's actually one of our quickest turnarounds
of an episode ever.
- This is gonna release like four days from now.
- We're recording this like Thursday,
and now it's Monday that you're watching.
- And it's being released on,
we will have been married for a month.
- Yeah.
How cool is that?
- Whoa. What?
- [Shayne] It feels like, no, it's been a blur.
- That actually blows my mind.
It's kind of insane.
- Yeah. Yeah.
- No, it's really trippy.
- Wow.
- And that's a goal for us for the podcast
is to make it like-
- Yeah.
- We're trying to work our way there with our schedules.
- To get more topical, more recent.
- To like film it and release it sooner.
But we're working on it.
But also you can see the set.
- Oh yeah.
Hi.
- Look at this.
For those watching- - The set's different.
- The set's different.
- That's the real tell all right now.
- Yeah, it's like, "Guys."
What if we only talked about the set, we don't talk about-
- No, we can't do that to them.
But look at, look at-
- The whole sound stage is different right now.
You just can only see this corner.
- Yeah, it's really, really cool.
I'm excited. - It's really sick.
Okay, so let's start at we got married.
We did a small little thing. - You guys eloped.
- Little elopement, yeah,
at the same place that you got married, Amanda.
- Yes.
And we were thinking like,
oh, I don't know if fans know that we got married
at the same place.
But I think there were a couple comments that were like,
"Oh, you guys got married at the same place."
- [Shayne] Some people figured it out.
- [Courtney] Oh, nice.
- Isn't that so wild?
- People be figuring that stuff out.
- People are detectives.
- I mean, I loved, loved getting married there.
- [Shayne] Yeah.
- What did you guys think?
- Oh.
- It was a great spot.
- [Shayne] Incredible.
- Like, Santa Barbara's such a gorgeous city,
and I love the beach.
And it's just like, the air is so fresh and nice,
and yeah, it was a really nice day.
We kept it super small.
And Brennan, who, you know,
he does camera stuff here a little bit,
he took our pictures.
- And nailed it.
- And they're gorgeous.
- So casually. Just casually taking photos.
It's the best photo I've ever seen in my life.
- Yeah.
It's crazy 'cause one of those photos
on the hard launch post,
we're like standing and there was like a window arch things,
and people pointed out that we made a heart shape.
And I did not realize that.
Brennan, I meant to ask you,
did you know that you were making a heart
when you took that photo?
- That's so funny.
- Brennan says, no.
None of us realized that it was a heart.
- It's just the universe telling us that we're perfect.
- You guys are just under luck.
- That was an accident.
- That's a good sign.
- It was really, really cool.
Every photo though was incredible.
- And you guys were in this amazing field of poppies.
- Yeah, there's a botanic garden.
- Yeah.
- And we went there, and the poppies-
- This is the top. This is the tower.
- [Shayne] Yeah. Yeah.
- I've gotta look back on my photos
and see if there's any hearts.
- You gotta look for some hearts.
- Probably not. - Look for some hearts.
Secret Mickey.
(everyone laughs)
- Oh no.
- There was a hidden Mickey there.
- Oh no.
- But yeah, the poppies were in full bloom.
- Yeah.
- And it was just really cool.
The sun was out,
and then we were lucky 'cause the sun was out in the morning
'cause we got married like early morning.
- Yeah, like most of the day.
- And then rained like crazy.
- Yeah. Yeah.
- So we got that good luck without-
- Wait, that's good luck.
- Yeah, but we got it, but it didn't impact us.
- Don't sleep on spring.
Spring, I didn't realize how,
like H is obsessed with spring,
and I was like, "We're gonna get married in spring?
"Okay."
It is unbelievable.
The roses.
It rained the night before ours, so-
- [Courtney] Oh, nice.
- It brought this beautiful, like green, fresh, like,
and the courthouse looks amazing in the spring.
Like, everything is blooming,
and it's not like, you're not dying of heat.
- Right.
It was really cool.
- [Courtney] Yeah.
- And then you kinda just go and you do it.
- And there's a lot of things that were like kind of amiss.
Like, you almost didn't get your suit.
I completely forgot our bouquet
that I tried to make the night before.
- You made a whole bouquet.
And what's the thing?
- And a boutonniere.
- A boutonniere.
And what's funny is-
- Oh.
- I forgot a pin for his boutonniere.
I was like, "Damn it."
And my best friend Bri from like my childhood,
she was gonna be coming.
I was like, "Can you bring a pin when you come?"
And she's like, "Yeah, no problem."
Then we show up to the courthouse
and I'm like hugging her hello.
And she's like, "I have the pin right here."
And I was like,
"Oh, I don't have the bouquet or boutonniere.
"Oh, well." (laughs)
- But then in the courthouse are a bunch
of like fake flowers at every desk.
And our friend just grabbed one of 'em and was just like,
"Here's your bouquet."
And then we took one of the flowers outta that
and made a little boutonniere out of that.
- [Courtney] Stuck it into your suit.
- And what's funny though is that fans,
some fans were like, "Oh, it's not real
"'cause you can tell those are fake flowers."
Meanwhile, like, there's a funny story to it.
- Yeah.
Wait, I actually didn't know about that.
- [Shayne] Yeah. - [Courtney] Yeah.
- Yeah. And it just kind of worked out perfectly.
- And then speaking of your suit.
- Yeah. So my suit-
- I knew about that.
- Yeah.
Everyone here knew how much I was stressing about that shit.
- A lot of people wanted to know where your suit was from.
- Yeah.
So because we were eloping
and it was gonna be a smaller thing
and wasn't gonna be too expensive,
I was like, okay, I've always wanted to have like a suit
that fits me well.
- Yeah.
- And I never have felt like I've gotten that.
Every suit is either too tight
or just I look like a little kid.
(Amanda laughs)
So I really wanted to get one.
So I found like a tailor, and I was like,
"I'm gonna get measured for a suit
"and I'm gonna have one made for me."
And I had this image in my head
for so long of like this like brown suit.
- Mm-hmm.
- And so I go and I get measured for it months ago,
like months before.
And they're like, "Okay, it'll be ready
"probably like end of February, early March."
Then they called me later, like a month later,
and they're like, "It'll probably be ready like mid-March."
- Ooh.
- [Shayne] Okay, I need it. - [Courtney] Cutting it close.
- Cutting it close. - I need it March 28th
'cause that's when,
I need it by then 'cause we're going to Santa Barbara.
And then they get it and they try to ship it to me,
and then FedEx just kind of like-
- Lost it.
- They sort of lost it.
I don't know what really happened.
But literally the day before,
less than 24 hours before we're getting married,
I get called, and they're like, "Hey, we have your suit."
- The tailor was like-
- The tailor's like, "We have your suit."
And I was like, "Great."
But they're far away.
They're like hours drive away.
That's why I was like, "Yeah, ship it."
So I drive hours to go get this suit,
and I'm just like, "I hope it fits well
"'cause I can't, no adjustments can be made."
- Yeah, there's nothing that you can do.
- You drove hours the opposite way.
- Opposite way I drive back,
and then we go to Santa Barbara that day.
So I was like in the car for like five hours.
- I remember you being like, "I'm not gonna get it.
"I'm not gonna get it."
We were like, "You're gonna get it."
- I was really bummed.
And we even went and got another suit.
- A backup.
- A backup black suit, which now I'm like,
great, I'll wear that for "Who Memed It?"
(everyone laughs)
But I'm so glad I got that brown suit
because, I don't know, it just felt like it fit.
And with all our photos-
- [Courtney] It's such a vibe.
- And it's so nice for the courthouse.
Like, the courthouse is that beautiful like ivory and brown
and like a little bit of reddish and then green.
- It was awesome.
- You looked great.
- And you had that black tie
that we kind of chose last minute.
- Yeah, it all worked out.
- It all worked out, 'cause I had a different dress
that I was planning on wearing
that was like more of an off-white,
because I knew your shirt with your suit originally
was gonna be like an ivory/off-white.
And then the closer we got to the wedding day,
my dress that I had, I was like, "I don't feel right in it."
Like, I always struggle with a balance of femininity
or just structure in my wardrobe.
And so I was like, "I can't."
And then I was like, "I'm gonna wear this white dress,"
which I ended up wearing.
And then because you had your backup suit
that came with a white shirt,
you ended up being able to wear that white shirt and like-
- It all worked out.
- Some people don't care about that stuff.
Like, I like color coordinating.
- Yeah.
- It ended up looking all so good.
- Well, it mattered to us
'cause that was all we were bringing to it.
- Yeah.
- You know, like it wasn't like-
- That was all we had for it.
- We didn't set up a wedding,
so it was like, we're going to this courthouse
and what we have is what we're wearing.
And I think it really was perfect.
- Yeah.
- That's so nice.
I love having,
the smaller wedding is then you can focus
on the actual details,
and you should be in something that you feel so good in.
- [Shayne] Oh yeah.
- And like comfortable, and it's fitted,
and that's when you spend a little bit more time,
a little bit more money on that.
That's the best part about a small wedding.
- It felt great.
- Yeah.
- And so we did that,
and it was just this very private, quiet affair.
And that's kind of funny because then come Monday,
and we had planned for months.
It wasn't like always our intention.
We knew at a certain point
that we were gonna eventually like announce
after we were married.