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Summary
TLDRIn this video, the host discusses her recent return to wearing hats, especially during the summer to manage her oily hair and to reduce squinting from the sun. She also shares her excitement about saving for her wedding and managing expenses with the help of the Rocket Money app. The video continues with her preparations for the wedding, including finalizing save-the-date invitations and discussing the timeline for sending them out. The host also talks about her family life, including her children's activities and a recent sickness that affected the family. She concludes by expressing her nervousness and excitement about her upcoming destination wedding and her desire to share more details with her viewers in future content.
Takeaways
- 🧢 The speaker has recently rediscovered their love for wearing hats, finding them useful for managing oily hair and sun protection.
- 💰 The speaker and their partner are actively saving for their wedding and managing expenses, recognizing the high costs associated with such an event.
- 🚀 The video features a sponsorship by Rocket Money, a personal finance app that helps users save money by canceling subscriptions and lowering bills.
- 💌 The speaker discusses the wedding invitation process, sharing that they are currently in the stage of finalizing 'Save the Date' cards and will soon move on to official invitations.
- 📅 The timeline for sending out wedding invitations is mentioned, with 'Save the Dates' being sent about 5 to 6 months before the wedding and official invitations 3 months prior.
- 🏠 The speaker's family life is highlighted, including taking care of their children and managing household tasks like doing their daughter's hair.
- 🍔 A casual family dinner scenario is described, with the speaker's partner grilling burgers and the family enjoying a relaxed evening together.
- 🎥 The speaker is involved in a photoshoot for an upcoming product release, emphasizing their excitement for the new bag designs in nude and black colors.
- 💌 The speaker and their partner review draft designs for their 'Save the Date' cards, discussing preferences and making decisions together.
- 📍 The speaker expresses anxiety and excitement about their wedding plans, particularly regarding the decision to have a destination wedding.
- 🎥 The video ends with the speaker reflecting on their community and expressing gratitude for the support throughout their life's major milestones.
Q & A
What is the main topic of the video?
-The main topic of the video is about the speaker's personal experiences, including her love for hats, managing finances with the app 'Rocket Money', and planning her wedding.
Why does the speaker feel the need to wear hats more often during summertime?
-The speaker feels the need to wear hats more often during summertime because her hair tends to get dirty and oily, especially after going to the gym, and hats help her avoid squinting too much in the sun, which she believes may cause wrinkles.
What are the features of the 'Rocket Money' app mentioned in the video?
-The 'Rocket Money' app helps users manage their personal finances by identifying and canceling recurring subscriptions, lowering bills, and setting budgets. It can negotiate bills on behalf of the user and monitor spending by category, notifying users when they exceed their limits.
What is the timeline for sending out save the date invitations according to the speaker's research?
-According to the speaker's research, save the date invitations should be sent about 5 to 6 months before the wedding, followed by the official invitations about 3 months before the wedding.
What is the speaker's plan for her upcoming save the date invitations?
-The speaker plans to finalize her save the date invitations and has some inspiration from Pinterest. She intends to go in person to look at different options and put the invitations together, aiming to send them out as soon as possible.
What is the significance of the speaker's mention of her children getting sick?
-The speaker mentions her children getting sick to highlight that it's a challenging time for her as a mother, and it also led to her feeling unwell herself. This adds a personal touch to the video, showing her vulnerability and relatable experiences.
What is the speaker's opinion on the black and nude bags from her collection?
-The speaker is very fond of both the black and nude bags from her collection. She uses the black one as a diaper bag, gym bag, and airport bag, and is excited about the nude bag because it is her favorite color and she believes it will be a versatile addition to her collection.
How did the speaker and her partner decide on the design for their save the date invitations?
-The speaker and her partner looked at a draft put together by their designer and discussed their preferences. They considered different design elements like acrylic, wax, and ribbon, and ultimately chose a design that they felt was more official and representative of their wedding vibe.
Why is the speaker feeling nervous about sharing her wedding details with her audience?
-The speaker feels nervous about sharing her wedding details because her audience has been a big part of her life, and sharing these intimate details makes the event feel more real and official. She is also excited and grateful for the support of her community.
What is the speaker's plan for future content related to her wedding?
-The speaker plans to share more about her wedding planning process, including looking at venues, picking their favorite one, and other behind-the-scenes details. She also plans to discuss why they decided to have a destination wedding in a future video.
How does the speaker engage her audience in the decision-making process for her wedding content?
-The speaker engages her audience by asking for their preferences on how she should share her wedding content, such as through a mukbang or a get-ready-with-me video. She values their opinions and wants them to feel involved in her wedding journey.
Outlines
🧢 Hat Vibes and Wedding Savings
The speaker discusses their love for wearing hats, especially during the summer when their hair tends to get dirty and oily. They mention how hats have been a recent trend for them and how they help reduce squinting in the sun. The speaker also talks about their wedding preparations, emphasizing the importance of budgeting and saving. They introduce Rocket Money, a personal finance app that helps manage subscriptions, lower bills, and set budgets to save money for big expenses like a wedding.
🤧 Dealing with Sickness and Family Moments
The speaker shares their experience of getting sick, which is unusual for them as they normally don't get affected when their kids fall ill. They talk about their family's recent sickness and how it has lingered. The speaker also mentions enjoying a Friday night with their family, eating healthy(ish) food like sweet potato fries and lettuce wraps, and spending quality time together in their home's playroom.
💌 Wedding Invitations and Destination Details
The speaker expresses excitement about their upcoming wedding and the process of finalizing save the date invitations. They discuss the timeline for sending out wedding invitations and share their plans to visit a physical location to explore different options. The speaker also reveals their nervousness about sharing the wedding venue details with their audience, emphasizing the importance of their community in their life.
💍 Wedding Planning and Community Connection
The speaker delves deeper into their wedding planning, discussing their decision to have a destination wedding and the emotional significance of sharing this journey with their audience. They reflect on the support and connection they've felt over the years and express gratitude for being able to share major life events with their community. The speaker also teases an upcoming video discussing the reasons behind choosing a destination wedding and asks for audience input on the format they'd prefer for this discussion.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡Hat
💡Wedding
💡Budgeting
💡Rocket Money
💡Save the Date
💡Personal Finance
💡Sponsorship
💡Content Creation
💡Fashion
💡Lifestyle
Highlights
The speaker discusses their renewed interest in wearing hats, particularly during the summertime to manage oily hair and reduce squinting from the sun.
The speaker mentions their efforts to save for their wedding by budgeting and managing expenses, as weddings can be costly events.
Rocket Money is introduced as a sponsor, a personal finance app designed to help users save money by canceling subscriptions, lowering bills, and managing finances effectively.
The app can identify and cancel recurring charges that users often forget about, potentially saving them significant amounts of money.
Rocket Money also assists in lowering bills by negotiating on behalf of the user, for services like phone, internet, and cable.
The speaker shares their excitement about an upcoming appointment to finalize save-the-date invitations for their wedding.
The timeline for sending out wedding invitations is discussed, with save-the-dates being sent about 5 to 6 months before the wedding and official invitations 3 months prior.
The speaker's personal experience with managing their child's thin hair and seeking recommendations for non-damaging hair products is shared.
The family enjoys a casual Friday evening at home with Alex grilling lettuce wrap burgers, sweet potato fries, and salsa.
The speaker discusses their lingering cough due to sickness, which they attribute to their children's recent illness.
The speaker's children are mentioned, with updates on their activities, such as soccer practice and their preferences for future possessions.
The speaker's upcoming product launch for a nude-colored bag is teased, with a drop date and restock information provided.
The speaker expresses their excitement about the versatility of the new nude bag, which they use for various purposes like a diaper bag or gym bag.
The speaker shares details about their photoshoot for the new bag, highlighting the importance of the product's release and the anticipation surrounding it.
The speaker discusses their plans to share more about their wedding preparations, including the reasons behind choosing a destination wedding.
The speaker's emotional connection with their audience is evident as they discuss sharing major life events and the upcoming wedding with their online community.
The speaker invites feedback from their audience on the type of content they would like to see next, whether it be a story time or a get-ready-with-me video.
Transcripts
hi guys welcome back to my channel so
happy to have you here girl I thought
you'd never come back how are we feeling
about the Hat I went through like a phas
where I was wearing hats every single
day and then I kind of just got over it
and now I feel like I'm back in that era
I love it because especially during
summertime my hair starts getting really
like dirty and oily especially with the
gym from up here but not down here and I
just feel like this is perfect
especially with the sun I tend to squint
a lot and I'm trying to not squint as
much because I'm going to get them
wrinkles girl so the Hat has just really
been the vibe for me lately because
obviously like when there's Sun around
and I just feel like I'm not squinting
as much and I also just like the vibe
that it gives it and my hair is dirty
under here girl but nobody got to know
with this hat and it has to be onset
just kidding but this is our onset hat I
like it cuz it's like black on black we
also have it in bige but yeah that is
that how are we feeling rate me down
below anyways before we get into this
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get into the Vlog guys I am so excited
because tomorrow I have an appointment
to go over invitations I kind of want to
finalize for sure for sure the save the
date invitations already I have some
inspo off Pinterest and also get started
with like the official invitations so
according to my research you first sent
the save the date about 5 to 6 months
before the wedding which is now and then
like 3 months before you send like the
official invitation let me know if you
guys did it different or how you guys
did it but if that is a timeline then I
need to send the save the dates ASAP so
we took the pictures you guys came along
for that now I have to put the save the
dates together which I know there's a
lot of websites online that do them but
I just really want to go in person to
kind of take a look at them and like the
different options that they have so you
guys will be coming along to that which
I cannot wait to just start sending
these out but it is also after school
hours so I just left the office Alex and
the kiddos are waiting for me so let's
head over with them it's Friday and we
have Alex grilling some burgers for us
well what are they called um lettuce
wraps I was like they have a name
lettuce wrap Burgers which I'm so
excited for because we're so hungry but
babe what do we have in here we have
some grilled onion and the burger meat
oh kids are crying okay what's going on
over here a guys it is 7:00 p.m. and by
this time girl the kids are checked out
look look at Mama
girl I do her hair in the morning and
I'm just like oh my God her hair just
looks crazy and I feel the need to tell
you guys
that it's just that her hair is really
thin like
mine that it like right away within like
the hour that I do it and it's also just
like a weekday so I don't like to do
like heavy or hard gels on her or
anything like that but if you guys
recommend me any like good gel that it's
not going to like really damage her hair
let me know because my home girl be
looking like that like 30 minutes after
I do her hair the longer her hair gets
the better it will get because right now
like it's like growing out really IO and
she just untucked her shirt because she
was not having it after the diaper
change but that's that's her girl and
then we have gu what do you have to tell
us today you haven't said anything in
this video tell us a secret dad's making
Burgers wow that's a deep secret oh we
have we have to ask you something what
what do you want to be when you grow up
I want to grow up I want I want a green
car a green you want to grow up and have
a green car yeah M those are some goals
right there we're all also feeling
better guys we all got sick ear this
week and I was ouch which I was telling
you guys that normally you feel better
feel better me yeah me too normally when
the kids get sick like it doesn't really
hit me but this time it got me so right
now I'm like on my last days of like the
sickness you know when when you just
feel it like in your throat so I'm like
but yeah hence why the boogies and all
of that us moms out there get it but wo
we have the In-N-Out babe is this in and
out oh yeah this is the healthy option
we got some sweet potato fries this
looks guys it is Friday so we wanted to
stay with in our macaros but still
it up a little bit have some fun with it
so I'm so excited Sala Chile okay we got
some salsa right here which is fire oh
mama careful sweet potato sweet potato
fire too we have 3 minutes baby before
the kids find us not that okayi is in
her pajamas she's ready for bed
more damn that looks busting boy m
yeah little mama 10 10 guys good I mean
Burgers I feel like something that's
easy to make you know it took me like
what 15 minutes to make everything okay
my turn go with Daddy here we go ladies
I'm so hungry too I hate like I never
know how to put the lettuce yeah thing
about lettuce wraps that they're like I
was supposed to eat a lettuce WRA but I
was like eh just do they're kind of
messy
exra
it you're just hungry huh both and it's
finally weather season that we can open
up right here and hence babe why I told
you the playroom here was a great idea
because we're grilling beers to get
crazy I wish we're grilling outside and
then the playroom is right here you see
how smart was I now it's convenient are
you team less now I'm team less 100%
this is what I was tell him I'm like
babe when it's like warm outside we get
to cook right here and we get to still
watch the kids in the playroom so so far
five star 10 out of
10 what P he looks like that little
emoji
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back in the car guys I'm on my way to
the office and oh my God I woke up today
with my
throat I have had this like lingering
cough sickness since the kids got sick
like a week and a half ago now and I
feel fine I feel great but it's just
this like lingering on my throat gu had
soccer practice yesterday which has been
the cutest thing ever because it's the
first time that he's ever in any sports
so started oh my God I can't talk he
started soccer and he absolutely loves
it so anyways we went to his practice
yesterday and it was like windy and
Dusty so I feel like kind of I thought I
was getting allergies but I'm like I'm
not like an allergy person I never get
allergies and stuff but I don't know if
it's the age but I feel like I'm
starting to kind of like certain things
like in the weather or something will
trigger my respiratory system system I'm
going to a little well it's not a full
photo shoot we're just doing like Ecom
pictures for the nude bag that is
dropping next week April 18 our nude bag
drops and also the black one is
restocking which is really exciting
because if you know you know our black
on the way duffel bag has been sold out
three times guys like when it sold out
the first time I was like oh snap like
the girls loved it like it's gone and
then we restocked it and it and it sold
out again and I was like oh my God like
you guys really love this bag so we
restocked it for a third time and it
solds out again every single time within
a day which is crazy so it's going to
restock one more time we do have a good
amount of stock this time or so we think
and then the nude one is also dropping
which I'm geeked about because you guys
know my absolute favorite color ever is
nude like I love nudes I love pinks too
like I think pink was like my favorite
color for a long time but as of the past
3 four years I have just been super into
nudes and whenever I buy something or
get something I'll get it in nude so
with that being said I was like like
this bag we have to drop it in nude
which I have with me right here I use
this as my diaper bag as my gym bag as
my airport bag like this bag comes with
me everywhere and then let me just show
you guys here never mind the light
turned green if you guys already have
the black one you guys need the nude one
because sometimes it just depends like
on on my outfit or whatever I'll wear
either the black one or the nude one so
now if you have both you can wear either
one depending on the Vibes April 18 is
the restock of the black one and then
also our nude one is dropping and then
we'll see where the day takes us y we
just wrapped up the shoot and I realized
I didn't Vlog anything Dum it in the
office downstairs I actually have the
kids toys because I thought they were
going to be here a lot but they're
actually not here as often but it's fine
hence the playground the slide and all
of that here but yeah that was a wrap I
got cut up in the pictures the shoot
that I didn't Vlog any BTS but here's
the black duffel that you guys already
know and love and then in the nude they
are the exact same just obviously
different colorways but yeah we had
Queenie Marlene come in and shoot today
this was a shot list and that's
basically it now let's head home say
something
cool all by Kpop you want to stop for a
cake pop yeah okay next errand of the
day guys we are going to take a look at
our save the dates she basically put
like a draft together for us for us to
approve which I'm excited for cuz I was
telling her like oh my god I've been
meaning to approve or save the days as
you guys know so yeah we found her she's
amazing she's been doing this for so
long I'm so happy I found her today
she's going to show us like the first
rough draft that she put together for us
for me and Alex to approve but I want
for these to go out like as soon as
possible gu has to pee okay we have the
whole gang here let's get down and see
what you put together okay we made it
here are you excited mom yesterday went
over there oh my God okay come on
everybody follow me follow
me under there you want a big puppy like
that you want a dog now yeah oh my God
that's a big dog look it's a nice dog
you can pet him if you want puppy you
like him it's not a puppy it's a big dog
he's a big boy okay he's a big puppy
this is acrylic ooh I love the acrylic
he's
nice he's a nice
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doy oh
okay
okay so my main inso that I had tolder
was this one babe like this and then you
move it to the side or whatever and then
it's our picture but picture wise I
don't know I love the acrylic though but
I love this one too you like this
one this Frost more than acrylic I love
the acrylic but this is giving more like
official invite a little
bit well I love both though so that's is
where I'm like you pick as the the as
the
husband well my inso was like this this
was mainly my inso and
then like they're just like that but I
told her I wanted to add something to
make it a little bit more like of a
touch so she cuz I told her I like
this wax something like
that I just love this little FL kind of
like reminds me of like a picture frame
oh okay oh
shimmery kind of shimmery FL which is
your absolute favorite though from the I
like this one I like this one you like
how we look there which one's your
favorite that one's your favorite okay
that's the one this is I like this one
here the layout I like this one the
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which one do you like more this is too
much and then this little wax can have
our initials that looks cute
too okay yeah I think I like
ribbon withow more
okay I like
that this is so pretty though this was
very
is that's cute or you don't like the
flower but I think this one might look
better I think white is better you like
white more yeah you too I'm on you too
white string or brown string what do you
think this one yeah you like this one
it's giving more wedding huh do you like
this cold or this cold
oh so it would be exactly like this
that's pretty just like this I don't
know why I love that little flower yay
we have the
winner make it perfect but this is
pretty much it pretty much it save of
the date well there you have it guys I'm
sure you guys stopped the video zoomed
in on what location our wedding was
going to be and I am so nervous I felt
the same way when we announced our
official wedding date I think because
you guys are a big part of my life like
a big basically my family so telling our
friends and family like the official
date was like oh my God but then putting
it online and sharing it with you guys
I'm like oh my God that's like the deal
deal like it's happening and the same
with us having a destination wedding I'm
like oh my God I'm sharing this with you
guys now like it's official mind you the
venue has been booked since last year
October so it's been official but just
sharing it with you guys I'm like like
it just makes it official official and
and yesterday I was just thinking and
I'm like oh my God I'm already starting
to feel so like nervous in such a good
way though and we're still like 5 months
away so I can only imagine honestly how
I'm going to be the month prior to the
wedding I used to think that I was going
to be okay maybe like a day before I'll
be nervous but I'm like girl I'm already
so like it's happening like I'm
having a wedding I'm getting married and
we're a whole 5 months away but I know a
big part of that is because I'm sitting
here right now telling you guys sharing
with you guys where our wedding is going
to be and there's so much more to it
like I want to tell you guys so much
about that it was a lot of back and
forth a lot of deciding and a whole
story time which I do want to do so the
next video I will share with you guys
why we decided to have a destination
wedding because I just want to have like
a little oneon-one girl talk with you
guys and just very much wedding talk for
anybody anybody that's interested or
cares about how that came about because
I know I mentioned it in a live a while
back it's it's been a while that I went
live and I mentioned it to you guys that
having a destination wedding was
definitely an option but we weren't too
sure we were leaning more towards a no
than a yes but at at that time I didn't
have to decide already so I was like oh
when I have to decide like I'll decide
so yeah the time came blah blah blah
blah blah and that's why I want to sit
down with you guys in another video and
just full on maybe I can make it into
like a mukbang let me know maybe get
ready with me what do you guys rather
please comment down below when I say
that story time with you guys just
having a FaceTime letting you guys know
why we decided on a destination wedding
do you guys want me to do a mukbang or a
get ready with me doing my makeup please
let me know what you guys want yeah like
I said of the day has been official in
contract but for some reason it feels
like right now is when it became
official official just sharing it with
you guys and it's crazy cuz you guys
have been a part of my life for 6 years
you guys have really been with me
through every big episode in my life
from moving out of my parents to an
apartment with Alex to getting pregnant
to getting pregnant again to building
our home to getting engaged and now to
our wedding which is such a big deal for
me and right now I just see a lot of I'm
feeling just really like emotional and
grateful from the wedding to just have
like a community of you guys that I can
come on here and kind of like share
these huge things in my life I'm like oh
my God I literally feel like girl I'm
more excited and nervous to share this
with you guys than to probably my
parents I'm just like oh my God like I
need to tell you guys about it so that's
the Tes and I'm like holding back cuz I
want to tell you guys so much more
details how everything went about we
also vlogged looking at venues picking
our favorite one all of that which those
videos are coming but yeah this is the
time it is a time that I share with you
guys that we are having a destiny ation
wedding like what holy moly macaroni we
are 5ish months away from the wedding so
I told you guys when wedding season
comes be prepared to be sick of me with
the wedding content and a lot of you
guys were waiting for it and are
enjoying it but if you absolutely for
whatever reason I hate the wedding talk
I'm sorry but it is going to be a big
part of my content and what I share with
you guys because like I said you guys
are a big big part of my life and just
like I share all these details with like
my best friends and family in my life um
I also want to share them with you guys
from us looking at places just all the
little things that go behind a wedding
like right now truly I'm just so
consumed by that my whole timelines are
about that and I'm super enjoying it but
yeah let me know what you guys want for
the next video and if there's anything
in specific that you guys want me to
share with you guys because I'm going to
go in girl and we're going to have a
talk thank you guys so much for watching
I don't mean to the haras but the next
video we will definitely get into all of
the details and yeah I love you guys and
I'll see you on my next one bye
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