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is that good okay hello what's up guys

um it's been a while since we just sat

down and chatt with you guys so we're

going to sit down and chat I like doing

these espe with everything that's

happened since the move and just in

general lots of live stuff lot of stuff

going on this is what we're uh working

with we're filming in front of our

window chair and a box so I always think

that's funny that um that's just kind of

here we are how we were it's very casual

guys it's as if you're sitting in the

here right across from us and we're just

having a conversation so I posted on

Instagram asking you guys um to ask us

any questions that you have regarding

our move or just live updates or family

stuff and uh we're just I I I

screenshotted them and I'm just going to

go in the order that I screenshotted

them so like there there's no order to

this we're not like trying to save like

the best questions for later or whatever

I'm just going in the order and doesn't

want I screenshot it either so it'll

always be fun to like hear yeah okay

what's first okay so what denomination

are y'all and have yall found a church

yet there's a lot of questions asking if

we had if we found a church yet yeah um

we're essentially non- denominational is

probably the best way to put it um we

just want to go to a church that loves

Jesus and where um we can get plugged

into a good Community um and that our

kids love yeah we're kind of like we're

kind of church hopping right now there's

one that we have found that we like a

lot we like all of them but there's one

that we really connected with um guys in

Tennessee there's so many freaking

churches there's like literally a church

yeah we want to try more

there's so many churches on every street

corner um so we're we haven't found like

our church home yet but we do have one

that we like for sure will find a church

yeah there's just so many uh I thought

this was an interesting question how do

youall earn money just social media

YouTube mhm um yeah and and I'm sure

it's an interesting question especially

people know that that we moved here and

and just kind of in general so um yes

most of the money that we make is is and

has been from YouTube and that's

honestly been my personal favorite

because the money just comes from

AdSense which means that the ads that

play before video you get paid for um

and I like it because we don't have to

like ask people for money we don't have

to try and like sell product that we

don't like believe in or like whatever

it is you know social media can get kind

of weird but like I love just making fun

videos yeah and you guys enjoying that

and getting paid from that then

obviously there's brand deals that are

like more direct and there's lot and we

try really hard to work with brands that

we actually really love and use and if I

be honest at the beginning that's why I

feel like we don't do that many compared

to others you know yeah like when we

first started social media you know just

being like a collge or whatever any

company that would come and say hey we

got money you want to talk about this we

like oh heck yeah are you kidding me

like over the years we've learned like

oh let's be like a lot more wise with

like what we promote how we promote it

yeah um make sure we really like what

we're promoting so all that being said

we we almost never promote product now

unless if we like have tested it out for

first and genuinely like it how are the

kids adjusting to the move a lot of

questions like that but I you talking

about um they all love it I

think Zen obviously hasn't even like

realized what's happening he's just

having the best time ever posie I would

say just totally loves it yeah right

Everly totally loves it too um I think

the only thing with Everly is she is

like Missing Her Dance Studio because

obviously we took her from her dance

studio and she's not really in her new

dance studio quite yet because it's

midseason so right now I feel like she's

missing like that studio feeling but

once she gets that I feel like she'll be

totally solid she's loving it and she's

having and actually right now the second

she's in California she's still dancing

dancing with her old studio so she's

still being able to see them and stuff

but it's an adjustment but I feel like

it's and I'm not just saying this I

really feel like it's going about as

good as it can go you know what I mean

everyone is really loving it nobody is

like I miss California nobody's having a

hard time like there were a lot of

questions and I didn't even screenshot

it but just about like like your

favorite thing and least favorite thing

about the move and it was honestly hard

for me to think about like a least

favorite thing as silly as it sounds I

just feel like we're all adjusting as

well as been a big bu so far are you

guys planning on having more kids

anytime soon or down the road I feel

like I like we talk about this all the

time I know I always so just be really

short it's kind of boring but I would

like one more kid I feel like Cole

probably would be good with the four

that we have but I'd be good with the

four that we have and if God wants to

give us one more yeah and my wife really

wants us to have one more I would love

one more I feel like but right now but

right now we are content before right

now we're we're and I'm not try anything

can happen because we love each other I

don't even have baby fever this is the

first time I have zero baby fever at the

moment we're very content with where we

are content at the Flor right now but I

do know in the future I would like one

more next question hardest things in a

relationship and how to get over them I

didn't like study an answer for this one

hardest thing in a relationship and how

to get over

it probably

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like I think I got mine you got yours

you go so I I don't know if this is like

in a Rel reltionship I mean it is but

like I would say parenting and raising

kids and and honestly that's all that

we've known I don't even know a

relationship outside of having a kid

because you know where I met you already

had everything so maybe so more like

this is going for like people that have

kids not really a relationship but but

obviously if you're you know if you ever

want kids then it's going to be part of

your relationship um so maybe maybe with

us it's going to be like difficult

whenever we don't have kids cuz all that

we know is kids you know but I would say

in general I think parents especially

just like friends that we have mentors

everything parenting and raising kids

with somebody can be really hard because

you have to raise them aligned you got

you got to be on the same team and

obviously I was raised a certain way

Savannah was raised a certain way

there's certain things that work in her

life that worked in my life that are

just different so then you bring that

into a new household and a new parenting

thing and like we're very fortunate and

very blessed that we really do see eye

to eye on I would say 99% of things

which is which is I I think pretty rare

I mean I know so many relationships like

are very different and they want to

raise this way and they want to raise

this way and then it's like it's tough

to get here yeah you got it fortunately

and that's what you know the Bible talks

about being equally yolked and I really

think on par compromise compromising I

would say is a hard thing in a

relationship compromising coming

together even to just like disciplining

your kids like how how you want to go

about disciplining them like if like we

see eye to eye on that but if we didn't

I could see how that would like such a

yeah hardship you know yeah that's good

other than that marriage is great yeah

you hear a lot of hard things about

marriage I know it's great you got to

work at it we have to communicate we

don't know everything but yeah we're

happy that was good all right are you

happy I'm happy are you

happy could be happier could be happier

next question let's

see how do youall handle the stress of

four kids so well so I kind of went from

my that this we do pretty well I say I

get stressed out more Savannah does

Savannah genuinely does so well not

getting stressed in general not just a

kid just in general she's just not a

stressful person I can get stressed out

of a work stuff about health stuff honey

that's nice so how do we handle it so

you do a good job I I I mean and I think

you do a great job for a father that is

home lots of the time thank you

especially yeah I mean we just love our

kids more than anything it sounds cheesy

cliche and easy but like obviously lives

get stressful but like even like we

spend 247 with our kids obviously we get

away for date nights and like here and

there but like we really do love every

second with our kids and then once 7:30

rolls around we really are like we're

ready to put them in bed we're like

we're ready to put them in bed because

we love each other we want to hang out

with each other but then for real once

it's time to lay in bed by 10:00 I'm

like look at pictures of them like

whatever videos we took that day and I'm

like I miss them you know like I can't

wait for the next day so it's one of

those like bitter sweet after every

parent can relate to that but that

didn't really answer the question yeah I

don't know I don't know I don't even

know how to answer that question I feel

like like it could be stressful

sometimes and then a lot of the time you

kind of just have to just like roll with

it yeah just life just oh four kid four

kids I kind of just explain to me so

well here's a rooll with it I don't know

I would say I'm big on like keeping my

word with things like I'll be like hey

if you keep doing that then this is not

happening later and then you actually

have to follow through that I feel like

a good thing to say is like you do what

works for your family will you guys ever

start posting as much as you used to not

here cuz I think at one point we were

doing like two or three videos a week

when again whenever it was just mive in

at Everly it was so easy just like yeah

go for it we got four kids now and like

everybody's dancing more and we kids but

we are doing the co and E channel that

was I I used this for you guys that

channel is really fun like the videos

are so cute me and all the kids like

when they're premiering on Saturday

mornings we all sit and wait for them

and everyone gets so excited premiering

on Saturday mornings and honestly every

and I are having so much fun with these

cuz we've been like family Vlog

lifestyle things for like a few years

now we haven't done like Challenge and

like big fun videos at time likes these

like legit videos like there's a

videographer there's something cool

happening every video there's like fun

things at the end that we rent it out

like the Nissan Stadium which is like

where like the Titans play uh like the

water park down the street guys they

like slept they like rent out a whole

water park we'll link down below it's

coming it's fun it's fun guys okay this

is a good question it said when will I

let your kids ate I think they said it

meant say when when will you let your

kids ate I feel like I don't know I feel

like I can't answer I think we might

butt heads a little bit here whenever we

cross that bridge well not because I

like want them today but I feel like you

have to like you can't be like so strict

to where they like are going to go do it

anyways and not tell you about it

crushes at school okay I'm not going to

say too much but like she'll tell me and

I'm like very open and we like laugh and

joke and like have fun together talking

about it and I know it's like little and

harmless and very I'm not crying I get

stck B allergies here but I want my kids

always to like be able to feel like they

can tell me about things and not me be

like you can't date him and then they go

do it without me you know so that's my

whole thing but but I do feel like like

a real date where he like comes and

picks her up and drives her to the

movies I don't know I feel like that's

older like 16 17 that's when I'll feel

comfortable with that I feel like group

settings of like hanging out with your

the boy that you like you know I'm going

to I'm going to trust my wife a lot and

let her lead a lot on that um because

she does she has done I don't know what

she has always done such a good job I

will probably have an unpopular opinion

and I will be a little more he'll a more

oldfashioned and intimidate the guy

um I I'm not very intimidating so with

with with the daughters I I want to let

the guy know that I am a very involved

father that I love my daughters more

than anything and nothing can happen to

them yeah with my son I will raise him

that you respect women and if I ever

find out anything bad then yeah I feel

like it'll it could be like a kid to kid

thing too you know just on maturity and

some kids are more mature at different

ages you can say also aren't capable of

answering this question correctly at all

I parent is we all are going to do

different things and we don't we're not

there yet so and we're going to mess up

whenever we do get there so that's part

of parenting but we're going to do our

personal best we will and I'm sure you

as a parent will do your best too right

okay here we go why did you guys move we

mention we brought that up but in case

you missed it you can just keep it

really short if you want to well so

we're just closer to more family being

in Tennessee that's a big one too more

family this way just in general slower

place of Life mhm um values values s

place of life like he said big one that

was a big one for me too I just I love

it here I love it here that's all really

do you regret moving

no hey how can you add a little more

suspense do you regret

moving no o this is a good

one that's I probably should

what was the real reason y'all moved the

real reason reason should we tell them

the real

reason we can't tell him the real reason

I don't know if we can tell them the

real

reason I give that word is still having

seizures we actually just po this up by

like a date the other day that it is

almost June Zeon had his first seizure

like in June his first only he's had a

couple fever no seizures several fevers

especially with his ear infection but so

but his ear tubes update on that too

have been working so amazing he has had

way if your kid get barely any ear

infections at all I highly recommend the

tubes yeah it's been so good yeah um

another Z one are you worried about Z's

development and speech at his age right

now not at all no I I I hear that

question sometimes and he's not talking

like as well as obviously posy and have

talked at that age but he's gotten so

much better I I think and I think two

things one he understands this so well

zeen is super super smart like there's

never been a time where we're like

he listens he can he can understand this

and his speech is developing so like he

used to not be able to say anything now

he can say things he's only two so it's

like still too I'm like give us a well

and I think what helped too is whenever

I'll take him to like the park or

something and like there's other boys a

lot of parents are like oh my boy didn't

talk until he was like four like no

worries like it's just super common for

boys to not talk as soon as girls do so

well and this is side tangent but I feel

like people are so quick to like

diagnose something or like whatever it

is but like I feel like you just got to