Our First Week Home With The New Baby Didn't Go As Expected.

The LaBrant Fam
25 May 202420:09

Summary

TLDRIn this family vlog, the parents engage in a series of heartwarming conversations with their children, exploring their likes, dislikes, and thoughts on various topics. The video captures candid moments as the kids share their favorite colors, toys, and memories, as well as their fears and happiness. Amidst the challenges of adjusting to life with a newborn and managing the health of their other children, the parents reflect on their experiences and discuss the possibility of adoption in the future. The script also reveals the thought process behind naming their latest addition, Beckham, and other potential names they considered.

Takeaways

  • 👋 Introductions: The video features several children named Z, Posie, Everly, and others, who introduce themselves and share their ages, favorite colors, toys, and family memories.
  • 👶 New Baby: The family has recently welcomed a new baby boy named Beckham, and the video discusses the first week of bringing him home and adjusting to life with five children.
  • 🏠 Family Dynamics: The children express their happiness about their baby brother and share their favorite activities with their parents, such as playing and going to Disney World.
  • 🤔 Learning and Understanding: The children are curious and ask for help understanding certain concepts, like the 'Sneaky Snake' symbolizing bad influences, and they are taught to listen to Jesus instead.
  • 🎉 Family Memories: The family has fond memories of visiting Disney World and Disneyland, which are highlighted as favorite family outings.
  • 😟 Challenges: The script mentions the children getting sick with a fever and an ear infection shortly after the new baby's arrival, causing some concern for the family.
  • 💊 Health Precautions: The family emphasizes the importance of taking vitamins and maintaining good health, especially after experiencing sickness upon returning home from the hospital.
  • 🛫 Travel Plans: The family is preparing for a flight to Florida for a wedding, expressing concerns about managing the logistics of traveling with five children.
  • 👶🏻 Adoption Considerations: The parents discuss the possibility of adoption in the future, considering the age gap between their children and the desire to provide a loving home for a child in need.
  • 🏡 Home Life: The family talks about their experiences with maintaining a healthy home environment, including changing air filters to prevent sickness.

Q & A

  • What is the name of the child who is three years old and loves dinosaurs?

    -The child's name is Z. He is three years old and his favorite toy is dinosaurs.

  • What is the name of Z's baby brother and what is special about it?

    -Z's baby brother's name is Baby Blue, which is a unique and interesting name.

  • What does the child named Posie have on her face and why?

    -Posie has blue stuff on her face because it was her last day of school and they had a field day.

  • What is the favorite color of the child named Everly?

    -Everly's favorite color is Periwinkle, which she also refers to as Perrywinkle.

  • What is the family's favorite vacation destination according to the children?

    -The family's favorite vacation destinations are Disney World and Disneyland, as mentioned by both Z and Posie.

  • What is the child's name who is afraid of the dark and thinks their house might collapse?

    -The child who is afraid of the dark and thinks their house might collapse is Everly.

  • What did the family experience during the first week after bringing the new baby home?

    -During the first week after bringing the new baby home, the family experienced some health issues with the kids, including an ear infection and fevers, but everyone is now healthy.

  • What is the name of the new baby and what are his initials?

    -The new baby's name is Beckham, and his initials are BBL.

  • What are some of the other names the family considered for their new baby?

    -Some of the other names the family considered for their new baby include Blue, Shepard, Chapel, Hawk, Huntington, Valor, and Breezy.

  • What is the family's plan regarding adoption and how do they feel about it?

    -The family is open to the idea of adoption and is prayerful about it. They are not in a rush and want to ensure they can provide individual attention to each child. They are open to adopting a child of any age if it aligns with God's plan for their family.

  • What is the family going to do after the video was recorded?

    -After the video, the family is planning to take a family flight with their five kids to Florida for the father's wedding, where the father is also being ordained.

Outlines

00:00

😄 Playful Conversation with Young Children

This paragraph features a light-hearted and playful interaction with young children named Z and Posie. The conversation covers topics such as their ages, favorite colors, toys, and family memories. Z, who is three years old, loves dinosaurs and has a baby brother named Baby Blue. Posie, five years old, talks about her favorite color silver, her love for pizza, and her fear of the dark, particularly relating to a haunted house movie. Both children are encouraged to ignore negative influences and are reassured of their parents' love. The segment ends with the children making silly faces, showcasing their cheerful and imaginative nature.

05:00

👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 Family Dynamics and Newborn Adjustments

The second paragraph delves into the family life of a household with five children, focusing on the first week after bringing a new baby home. The parents discuss the challenges of settling back into a routine, including sleep disruptions and managing the health of their other children. They recount an ear infection that affected one of their children, Z, who had previously experienced a febrile seizure, causing them concern. Despite the initial difficulties, the family seems to be adjusting well, with the newborn sleeping for longer stretches and the parents expressing gratitude for their healthy family. The paragraph concludes with the family preparing for a flight to Florida for a wedding, highlighting the logistical challenges of traveling with multiple children.

10:00

🤔 Reflecting on Parenthood and Future Adoption

In this paragraph, the parents contemplate the possibility of future adoption, discussing the timing and the age of the child they might adopt. They consider the advice against disrupting birth order and weigh the benefits of adopting an older child versus a baby. The conversation reveals their openness to any age and their desire to provide a loving home, regardless of the child's age. They also express their commitment to giving each child individual attention and ensuring that they can continue to nurture and love each child uniquely. The paragraph ends with a humorous note on the initials of their newborn's name, BBL, and a light-hearted discussion about other potential names they had considered.

15:02

👶 The Challenges and Joys of Newborn Care

The fourth paragraph centers around the experiences and emotions surrounding childbirth and the care of a newborn. The mother shares her concern about being numb from an epidural during the birth, which initially caused her to worry about her ability to breathe. The couple reflects on the support of their medical team and the overall positive experience they had at the hospital. They also discuss the challenges of newborn care, such as sleep deprivation and the importance of maintaining a connection with each child individually. The conversation ends with a playful exchange about the newborn's name, Beckham, and the parents' intention to provide a warm and loving environment for all their children.

20:03

👋 Closing Remarks and Upcoming Family Event

The final paragraph serves as a closing to the video script, with the family preparing to attend a wedding in Florida. They express their anticipation and a bit of apprehension about the challenges of traveling with their five children. The parents also mention their plans to catch up with their audience after the event and hope for a successful trip without any mishaps. The paragraph concludes with a warm farewell to their viewers, promising to share more updates upon their return.

Mindmap

Keywords

💡Newborn

A newborn refers to an infant who has been born very recently. In the context of the video, the theme revolves around the family adjusting to life with a newborn baby, discussing the challenges and joys associated with bringing a new member into the family. For example, the script mentions the first week with the baby and how it affected the family dynamics.

💡Family

Family is a fundamental concept in the video, referring to the group consisting of parents and children living together. The video script discusses various interactions and experiences among family members, highlighting the importance of family bonds and shared memories. The family in the video is navigating the addition of a new baby, which is a significant life event.

💡Disney World

Disney World is a popular theme park and resort in Florida, known for its magical and fun-filled environment. In the script, it is mentioned as a favorite memory that the family has shared, indicating that experiences like these play a role in creating happy family memories.

💡Childhood

Childhood is the period of life between birth and adolescence. The video script frequently references the children's perspectives, interests, and experiences, such as their favorite toys, colors, and activities, which are all integral parts of childhood.

💡Adoption

Adoption is the process of legally taking someone else's biological child and raising them as one's own. The script touches on the topic of adoption as a potential future consideration for the family, discussing the idea of adding to their family through this means.

💡Sickness

Sickness in the video refers to the health issues experienced by some of the children in the family shortly after the newborn's arrival. The script describes how the family dealt with ear infections and fevers, which added to the challenges of settling into life with a new baby.

💡Love

Love is a central theme in the video, with family members expressing their affection for one another. The script includes several instances of family members saying 'I love you' to each other, emphasizing the emotional bond that holds the family together.

💡Parenting

Parenting encompasses the tasks and responsibilities involved in raising a child. The video script discusses various aspects of parenting, such as teaching children, understanding their fears, and supporting their happiness and growth.

💡Names

Names are used to identify individuals and can carry personal or cultural significance. The video script mentions the process of naming their newborn, discussing the considerations and the final choice of the name 'Beckham,' which also includes the option to go by 'Blue.'

💡Memories

Memories are the mental representations of past experiences. The video script includes discussions about favorite memories shared by family members, such as trips to Disney World and Disneyland, which are highlighted as cherished moments in their family history.

Highlights

Introduction of a three-year-old named Z who loves dinosaurs and has a baby brother named Baby Blue.

Z's favorite activities include playing with his parents and going to Disney World and Disneyland.

Posie, a five-year-old, shares her love for silver and pizza, and her fear of the 'Monster House' movie.

Posie's favorite memory is 'Dinosaur Topia', a family event.

Everly discusses her dislike for sleeping and her fear of the house collapsing while she's asleep.

The family's experience with bringing their newborn baby home and the initial sleep patterns.

Health challenges faced by the family during the first week with the new baby, including ear infections and fevers.

Importance of vitamins and maintaining good health in the family.

The family's upcoming trip to Florida for a wedding and the preparations involved.

Reflections on the transition between different numbers of children in the family and the challenges it presents.

Discussion on the possibility of adoption and considerations regarding birth order and age gaps.

The family's thoughts on giving each child individual attention and the importance of one-on-one time.

Naming their newborn Beckham and the reasons behind choosing the name.

Other potential baby names the family considered, such as Shephard, Chapel, and Valor.

The family's plan to catch up with their audience after returning from Florida's wedding.

Transcripts

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[Music]

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no T open there cuz I don't see myself

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hi

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hi what's your name Z so Zen how old are

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you three three that's cool Z what's

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your favorite color blue blue um what's

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your favorite

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toy

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dinosaurs dinosaurs dinosaurs are cool

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what do you think about a

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lot baby brother baby brother yeah yeah

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what's your baby brother's name baby

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blue baby blue that's cool do you love

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him yeah yeah um what makes you the most

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happiest baby baby baby brother he makes

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you the most happiest yeah more than

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anyone what else makes you really

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happy presents presents what's your

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favorite thing to do with your mommy and

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daddy play play play with Daddy play

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with Daddy yeah is there anything that

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you don't

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understand um what what say is there

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anything that you don't understand that

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you want me to teach you about yeah yeah

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what

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um don't listen don't

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listen yeah that's a good answer what's

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your favorite memory with your family

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what's a memory like what's your

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favorite thing that we done together go

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to Disney World going to Disney World

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and how about Disneyland or Disneyland

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yeah those are awesome huh that was fun

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my favorite thing is Disneyland and

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Disney World Disneyland and Disney World

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yeah yeah good answers is there anything

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that you're sad or worried

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about um by yourself and don't know

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where you are oh and you're all by

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yourself and you don't know where you

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are yeah yeah that's kind of scary hey I

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love you so much I love you so much you

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did a good job but you said you will

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open it open it yeah yeah like

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this say hi

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hi can you make your silliest face ever

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for

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me

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sillier sillier oh now that's

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silly good

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job hello hello

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what's your name posie posie how old are

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you five five awesome and what's all

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over your face first off I see some blue

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stuff on your face was it your last day

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of school you had a field day at your

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school yeah yeah you had some and my and

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my brother was was first and and he was

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three and his name was Zealand that's

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right he was first and he is three in

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New Zealand uh what's your favorite

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color um silver silver that's a fun

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color and what's your favorite food um

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Pizza Pizza nice what do you think about

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a

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lot a lot a lot about what I don't know

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just like is there something about that

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you think about a lot in your head

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Sneaky Snake Sneaky Snake yeah what

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Sneaky Snake the devil the devil and

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what does a sneaky snake tell us to do

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bad things bad things do we listen to

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him no he's in our head though he's

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telling us to do bad things yeah he

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he'll get in your head he'll tell you to

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do bad things and what do you

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do don't listen don't listen who do we

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listen to Jesus Jesus who's strongest

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the Sneaky Snake or Jesus Jesus Jesus

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what makes you the

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happiest think about whenever you're the

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most happy when you snuggle me ins my

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bed and when I snuggle you yeah and your

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bed I the most happy does anything else

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make you so

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happy ice cream ice cream yeah is there

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anything that you don't understand that

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you want me to help you

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understand Spanish Spanish yeah can you

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say hola hola

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koasas nice you got it okay what is your

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favorite memory with our whole

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[Music]

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family dinosaur Topia what was that

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dinosaur Topia dinosaur Topia that is

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fun is there anything you're worried or

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scared

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about

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um that haunted house like you remember

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that was that

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called oh the haunted H uh monster

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house yeah so scared Monster House the

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movie yeah I scared it was in my St room

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you're afraid that monster house was

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inside of your closet yeah because the

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lights are off and he looks dark yeah it

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is dark inside his house yeah well hey

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doesn't make you feel better that

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monster house is not in your closet I

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promise

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you and I love you so much love you so

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much you're all time still in his face

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go oh sillier come on oh you got to do

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that one really silly one yeah that one

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that's a good one I like that one dude

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it's Rachel yeah guys say I like jelly

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beans I like

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jelly okay first off what is up with

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your outfit I'm going to dance dance

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dance outfit okay nice uh and what is

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your name Everly Everly it's like you're

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so close what's your favorite color

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[Music]

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um Periwinkle perrywinkle wow oh

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perwinkle or

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hot pink oh my goodness what do you

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think about a

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lot probably school and dance school and

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dance or just like what I'm going to do

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next yeah like what I'm like like I'm

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when I wake up I'm just like what am I

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going to do first that's kind of what I

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think about just the next those are

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pretty much your thoughts Y what makes

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you the

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[Music]

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happiest my siblings and my parents and

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Gigi nice is there anything that you

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don't understand that you want to

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understand um maybe different languages

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that's what POS said POS said Spanish

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okay what is your all-time favorite

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memory with our family well it's just

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like individual like just like going

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like just meeting all of the kids

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probably like when they were like born

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yeah like you bringing them home like

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every single one uhhuh uh is there

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anything that you're worried about or

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that scares you m a lot of things scare

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me but I'm not worried about anything at

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night I do not like sleeping that's

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definitely one thing that scares me I

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hate sleeping I wish I could just stay

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up the whole entire universe it's just

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such a waste of time sleeping sleeping I

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just hate sleeping sounds like sleeping

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stresses you out it's so scary I have to

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sleep in my bed all of my lights off by

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myself under the

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covers that's almost and I feel like our

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house is going to collapse you think

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that our house is going to yeah cuz I

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always hear cracking

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uh okay uh I love you Mom and

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[Music]

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Dad I think all of you guys did this

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face oh man that one's pretty good the

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side by side here we go there

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I'm okay we're home we're home it's

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officially one week in with five kids

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yeah yep so we're doing a quick catchup

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uh I don't actually have any catchup

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okay

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uh no we just wanted to catch up with

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you guys um before we kind of get out of

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this whole like brand new baby season

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just kind of get into like the role of

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normal life we want to have like one

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more cap on new baby stuff so yeah um so

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you have questions for me or something I

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I have I have some questions okay but

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also a big one being uh just how was the

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first week of bringing baby home and

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kind of

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explaining uh what sleep was like the

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first week with baby but also what we

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what we went through the first week with

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all the kids and the new baby yeah yeah

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cuz that was kind of a lot for a second

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yeah fortunately we're so hospital was

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great coming home from the hospital was

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great first you guys saw us coming home

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the first day was good yeah slept good

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the first day yeah I actually slept

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great the first night um like I felt

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like the last few weeks of pregnancy

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were so rough on me that I wasn't

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sleeping at all I was just like back and

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forth all night so I just felt like I

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had like 3 hours max of sleep so with a

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newborn you know you're getting at least

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like a couple hours here and there so I

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felt pretty good the first couple nights

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um and then all of a

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sudden posie throws up hold on hold on

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zalen got an ear infection oh zalen got

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an ear infection the kids were taking

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swim classes and we thought no fever so

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we the doctor came over checked on zalen

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was like oh you guys are fine he doesn't

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have a fever so like everything's fine

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you guys hon he always gets infection

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our our two prayers right uh leading up

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to this baby two prayers were healthy

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mama and baby right I God please give us

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a healthy mama and a healthy baby and

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please keep our other kids healthy the

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first week that we're home I know cuz

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you don't want to bring a bring home

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we've been so good since Florida we

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haven't sick Disney World Tri we

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literally haven't been sick for like

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four or 5 months knock wood like tiny

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little things you like a cough or runny

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nose we don't consider that I'm a big

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wipe out we have it and then Zeal gets

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an ear infection like 2 days after we

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bring the baby home yeah and we're like

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okay like maybe a few hours after the

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doctor leaves he gets a fever yeah after

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she's like oh he's in the clear cuz

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there's no fever like yay that night he

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spikes a big like a few hours later he

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gets a big fever go like oh man so then

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I think thinking maybe it's just him cuz

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ear infection aren't contagious and

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maybe it's just going to be him and

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we're good so then you know I'm not

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sleeping cuz newborn he's not sleeping

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cuz zeen and and just reminder zalen has

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gotten a foral seizure yeah which means

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that this was almost 2 years ago almost

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two years ago exactly Zeon had his first

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and only FBR seizure praise the Lord he

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hasn't had any more since but it's where

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kids who get fevers too die and they

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Spike too quickly or even if they uh

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fall too drastically they can have a

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seizure and Zeon had one two years ago

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so anytime gets a we're more on edge

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when he has a fever than like if other

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kids get it yeah um but yeah and that

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happens it Go his fever went away pretty

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quick though and then posie got a fever

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posie got a fever then her stomach hurt

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all day one of the days really oh no I

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hope this isn't like a throw up someing

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she never threw up and then later that

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night night Sunday throws up out of

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nowhere gets a fever it's like day like

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oh my gosh so it's like like day three

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or four yeah we're like day three or

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four new baby and and this at this point

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he's not sleeping good yeah at this

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point he's not sleeping that great so he

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slept good like the first night or two

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yeah and then like Night 2 or Up 3 from

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like from like 900 p.m. until 300 a.m.

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he's waking up like every hour basically

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to e so you're exhausted so I'm sleepy

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I'm pretty sleepy cuz I'm which it's

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fine because that's just newborn life

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but kids all the sick kids was just

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rough so and they were trying to keep

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him kind of away from the kids but we're

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also not like the craziest about like

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you got to go stay in the room what are

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we going to do with the kids you got F

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like we're not going to like I basically

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just said no hand touching no kissing

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yeah baby stayed healthy yeah so like

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all of that happened everyone's healthy

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now for days Nicole and Everly all

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stayed healthy which is great has it

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been like 5 days savan has been very

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good about giving the kids vitamins I

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have on a just a real level we think

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that that K this sickness out like the

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got it it was gone like a day or two

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every vitamin possible ever since we

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moved and if California if you haven't

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changed your air filters oh my gosh we

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were getting sick all the time in

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California no one told us he had to

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change air filters we had our air

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filters in for like 2 years so bad it's

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so and then we change them we didn't

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even know that you had to change

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ail if you have a house change your air

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filteria I feel like our kids were just

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sick all the time because we our house

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is haunted there's some weird mode JoJo

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G and then someone just brought up our

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air filters and we're like huh what's

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that what but no one's days and the baby

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sleep amazing you guys he sleeps he does

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4our stretches three times in the middle

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of the night like incredible man like

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sleeps until like 10:00 a.m. in the

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morning too so it's great by the time

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that you guys watch this we will have

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taking a family flight with our five

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kids we leave

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tomorrow uh to Florida my dad's wedding

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yeah so pray for us yeah it's going to

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be

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97° with Supreme humidity and my mom is

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coming which is nice her mom is coming

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to help she's going to help us Sunday

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cuz I feel like Sunday will be the most

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this is going to this is going to be the

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challenge if you guys have ever flown

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with little kids I mean we're going have

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an 11-year-old every's mostly we just

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have lots of stuff like how are we going

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to carry all the stuff and the babies so

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much stuff I don't know car seats I have

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no idea how this I there I I wish more

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hands for stuff I wish I could film it

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like look back on it cuz like this is

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like maybe I'll get some stuff for you

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guys of his hand there's no way that you

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can film this we're just going to have

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to persevere so just pray for us yeah

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and pray that the kids won't get sick on

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the flights yeah it's my dad's wedding

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I'm ordaining it yeah congrats Dad yeah

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if it wasn't his dad's wedding and he

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wasn't ordaining it I would probably not

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be going with a newborn but this is kind

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of a big deal so yes we're very happy

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for my dad yes okay from which amount of

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kids and and these going be more rapid

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fire questions okay okay from which

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amount of kids to the next was the

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hardest transition obviously from like 1

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to two 2 to three blah blah blah um

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got I would say one is just the hardest

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like zero to one like 0er to one is like

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the hardest cuz you just go from

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absolutely doing whatever you want to

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having someone that you were caring for

13:49

every second of your life I agree with

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that what was the scariest thing about

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the birth

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experience I know we talked about it but

13:57

maybe for people who had get watch thing

13:58

prob just epidural yeah yeah for sure

14:02

yeah we think we think what happened was

14:04

we think Savanah got an epidural I think

14:05

I got a C-section epidural is what

14:06

happened because I was completely numb

14:08

from here down like completely numb yeah

14:11

like Cole could have put my foot behind

14:13

my head and I would have never noticed

14:16

yeah something that that would and

14:17

that's not normal that kind of scared

14:19

was like she said this before we found

14:21

this out but she she was like she was

14:23

like out of it she was kind I have I

14:24

don't want to fall asleep cuz I have to

14:26

keep reminding myself to take breaths

14:28

I'm like what the the heck was going

14:30

she's like I'm numb here and I I I'm get

14:31

tingly on my chest I'm like what the

14:33

heck is going on and then after all that

14:35

went away cuz the medicine wore off you

14:37

feel again they were going to redo an

14:38

epidural yeah that was just they were

14:40

explaining how like if they give you too

14:41

much of an epidural it can actually numb

14:44

and like paralyze your lungs and like

14:46

you can't forget to breathe I'm like I

14:47

think that was happening um all in all

14:50

we we had a great experience yeah once

14:52

that epidural was done and they put my

14:54

new one in and the correct one it was

14:56

totally and I need to clarify the

14:57

medical team had our hospital was great

14:59

they did a fantastic job we had such a

15:01

wonderful experience but child birth can

15:03

just be kind of scary yeah if you and

15:05

Sav were to adopt do you think you would

15:07

adopt a child or a baby we were just

15:09

talking about this we were just talking

15:10

about this we went on a date for the

15:12

first time since baby me Cole and baby

15:15

last night yes and we were talking about

15:16

this um I hear some people say like

15:19

don't disrupt the birth order if you're

15:22

going to adopt so I hear that's a thing

15:25

but then people do it all the time you

15:26

know so at first first I was like well I

15:29

just won't distrupt the birth order

15:31

order and I'm we'll just do a baby when

15:32

we're all done but now I'm like there's

15:34

such a big age gap between Everly and

15:36

posie that I feel like there'd be a

15:38

perfect child to just go like right in

15:40

the middle of them every every's 11 POS

15:44

five so there's sixe age Gap right there

15:46

so I feel like it'd be pretty perfect in

15:48

like a couple years for us to adopt a

15:51

kid like 2 or three years old yeah like

15:52

a 9 10 year old um plus I feel like

15:56

babies get adopted all the time and

15:58

older kids don't yeah as

16:00

much I don't know but but this is a big

16:03

pause at the moment obviously we are now

16:04

adressing to a fifth kid we're very

16:06

young we're not in any rush but we are

16:09

prayerful that if this is something that

16:11

God wants and if he brings a perfect kid

16:13

into our family then yeah I'm whatever

16:16

whatever God's plan is for our adoption

16:18

if that happens I'm open to any age yeah

16:21

my prayer my prayer or gender yeah yeah

16:25

we're not biased my prayer is just that

16:27

God would expand specifically my ability

16:29

to love each individual kid well right

16:32

CU this will go into and I so I'll touch

16:34

on this question and I'll touch on this

16:37

question is this actually the last one

16:40

I'll touch on both V and one and that uh

16:42

I think this is our last one together

16:45

I'm probably going to soon together um

16:48

that's I'll snip snip in case you're

16:49

curious um but we could adopt my uh

16:54

pause on adoption is it's not adoption

16:57

it's it's nothing with adop it's just

16:59

another kid whether it's a kid conceived

17:02

with my wife or a kid that we bring into

17:04

our home I just want to have the

17:06

capacity not to just Clump the kids

17:07

together and love them uh as a group cuz

17:10

it's really easy to like have all the

17:11

kids playing outside as a whole or take

17:14

them all to Tri Par as a whole but like

17:15

to like look them each in the face

17:16

oneon-one and get that one-onone time

17:18

which I want to make sure I'm always

17:19

really good about which we really love

17:20

doing and we love doing it's just that

17:22

that's is what gets harder with more

17:23

kids that's where if we brought another

17:25

kid in I want to make sure that I know

17:27

that I can do that right now still only

17:29

really giving special time to three kids

17:32

you know cuz we don't take Sunday out on

17:34

like special dates yet she's still

17:36

little yeah so right now the special

17:37

time is really just three kids so I

17:39

can't imagine doing six but you would

17:42

just make it happen so you know all that

17:44

to say if we don't adopt in the next 3 5

17:46

years it doesn't mean that we're not

17:47

going to mhm it just means that we're

17:50

adjusting yeah and we're not rushing

17:51

into this okay

17:54

uh did you know that Beckham's initials

17:57

are BBL yep yep all right we don't care

18:01

at all so asked she was like do you care

18:04

and I was like I don't one rip I was

18:05

like I don't either uh just cuz we like

18:08

the name back in blue lebrand so it's

18:09

like if we like the name I'm not going

18:10

to let the initials like I don't ever

18:11

think of any of my kids initials plus

18:13

plus we don't um look down on people who

18:15

do have bbls right if you have a BBL

18:16

like we still think you're great how

18:18

much did blew away I there's a lot of

18:19

questions about this I thought we said

18:20

it on the Vlog oh I don't know if we did

18:22

he was big he was 8 lb 10 oz yeah least

18:26

big for us I know some of you guys like

18:27

that's not big but yeah that

18:31

um and the last question is other names

18:33

you guys thought of instead of Beckham

18:35

blue and I guess we could just say them

18:37

all now since we probably won't be

18:38

having another baby that's true we were

18:40

just going to do blue obviously just

18:42

name him blue and a lot of people are

18:43

confused why we didn't just do blue

18:45

because we just call him blue but we

18:47

also Like Beckham and I kind of I like

18:50

reason I think we already explained this

18:51

but our reasoning for it too is like is

18:54

he has the option to go by either name

18:56

that he wants to which I think is cool

18:58

you have two names

18:59

I like Beck and blue most of everyone

19:01

else calls him blue but I like Beck and

19:02

blue I like Beck and blue too um other

19:05

names that we liked so again blue

19:07

possibly for just the first name we like

19:08

shephard a lot we love Savannah's number

19:10

one name if I was Bor with it Chapel was

19:13

Chapel if I was I almost forgot what it

19:15

was for a second I was like was that

19:16

right yeah I love chapel would he would

19:18

be Chapel if I was on board with it I

19:19

just I thought that was so cute calling

19:21

him chap so one of you guys please name

19:23

your little boy Chapel so then I can

19:24

just live through you I liked Hawk Hawk

19:28

s didn't really like

19:29

I liked I liked Huntington I like

19:31

huntingt like Huntington Beach I thought

19:32

that was kind of cool I just didn't want

19:33

the nickname hunt we live in the south

19:35

we live in Tennessee so he would just be

19:36

Hunter HT yeah um which is fine yeah but

19:39

uh what else do we

19:42

like Valor we like the Valor actually

19:45

one of our friends has a son named Valor

19:46

and we think that's such a cool name

19:48

yeah um oh one name that I really liked

19:51

was Breezy or Breeze I didn't like that

19:54

hey guys you guys want to say bye with

19:55

us bye okay he hey we'll catch up with

19:58

you guys after back from Florida's

19:59

wedding and hopefully we're all alive

20:01

and well and oh that light just went off

20:03

we just got Dr bear we'll see you next

20:05

video okay see you guys

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