Q&A with my BABY DADDY

Wendy Ortiz
24 Apr 202413:27

Summary

TLDRIn this candid Q&A video, Wendy and her ex-partner, referred to as 'Cardinals,' address their past relationship and current co-parenting status. Wendy, a social media influencer, discusses the lack of support from Cardinals during her rise in popularity and his emotional reaction to her breakup videos, which he admits he has not watched. The couple delves into the reasons behind their breakup, including financial irresponsibility and a lack of communication. They candidly share their struggles with postpartum depression and the initial difficulties in transitioning to co-parenting. The conversation highlights their growth, with both acknowledging their past mistakes and the importance of maintaining a healthy environment for their child, Valentina. Wendy also touches on her feelings about Valentina's presence on social media and the impact of their digital footprint. The video concludes with a clear statement that, despite speculation, they are not back together and do not plan to reconcile in the near future, choosing instead to focus on their roles as co-parents.

Takeaways

  • 👥 Wendy and Cardinals are not back together but are good co-parents.
  • 📈 Wendy had a growing social media following, but Cardinals did not initially support her content creation.
  • 💔 Cardinals has not watched the breakup videos posted by Wendy.
  • 💰 The breakup was due to Cardinals spending their money irresponsibly and not prioritizing Wendy and their child, Valentina.
  • 🚫 After the breakup, there was a period of no communication and a lack of a good relationship between Wendy and Cardinals.
  • 🤝 They eventually apologized to each other, which improved their co-parenting relationship.
  • 👶 Co-parenting has been going well, with both Wendy and Cardinals prioritizing a healthy environment for Valentina.
  • 📅 Their co-parenting schedule has been flexible, recently involving alternating weeks but will shift to weekends once Cardinals starts working.
  • 🤔 Wendy is open to the possibility of getting back together with Cardinals far in the future, but not anytime soon.
  • 📱 Wendy is aware of the digital footprint she is creating for her daughter and has been cautious about her public statements.
  • 💬 Wendy expressed regret over going on a podcast to expose Cardinals, which caused tension in their relationship.

Q & A

  • What is the relationship status between Wendy and Cardinals?

    -Wendy and Cardinals are not back together. They are good co-parents but are not in a romantic relationship.

  • How did Wendy feel when she started gaining followers on social media?

    -Wendy felt that when she was with Cardinals, he did not support her social media efforts despite her having 10K followers.

  • What was Cardinals' reaction to Wendy's breakup videos?

    -Cardinals has never watched the breakup videos because he finds it too emotional.

  • How did Wendy find out about the podcast where Cardinals discussed their relationship?

    -Wendy found out about the podcast through her friends who told her about it.

  • What was the main reason for Wendy and Cardinals' breakup?

    -The main reason for their breakup was Cardinals' irresponsible behavior, including spending their money and not prioritizing Wendy and their child.

  • How did Wendy cope with postpartum depression and the breakup?

    -Wendy struggled with postpartum depression and the breakup, and it took a toll on her mental health.

  • How has co-parenting been between Wendy and Cardinals?

    -Co-parenting has been going well, with both of them spending time with their child, Valentina, and creating a healthy environment for her.

  • What is the current co-parenting schedule for Valentina?

    -The co-parenting schedule has been one week with Wendy and the next week with Cardinals, but it will change to weekends once Cardinals starts working again.

  • How does Wendy feel about Valentina being on social media?

    -Wendy is okay with Valentina being on social media and shares her on her platforms, but she is aware of the potential dangers from 'weirdos' online.

  • Why did Wendy go on a podcast to discuss her relationship with Cardinals?

    -Wendy was a bit jealous and bitter at the time, which led her to discuss their relationship on the podcast.

  • What are the current feelings between Wendy and Cardinals regarding their past relationship?

    -Both Wendy and Cardinals do not regret their breakup and feel that they have grown since then. They acknowledge that they are not together and do not see a reunion happening anytime soon.

  • How have Wendy and Cardinals improved their communication and relationship?

    -After an initial period of poor communication and resentment, they both apologized to each other and have worked on maintaining a healthy co-parenting relationship for the sake of their daughter, Valentina.

Outlines

00:00

😀 Q&A with Baby Daddy: Clearing Up Speculations

Wendy and her ex-partner, Cardinals, address the audience with a Q&A session to provide an update on their relationship. They clarify that despite their breakup, they are on good terms and functioning well as co-parents. Wendy asks Cardinals about his feelings when she started gaining followers and his reaction to the breakup, which he admits he never watched due to emotional reasons. The conversation also touches on the reasons behind their breakup, Wendy's struggles with postpartum depression, and the initial difficulties they faced post-breakup. They discuss their current co-parenting arrangement and how it has improved over time.

05:00

🤔 Co-Parenting and Future Relationship Possibilities

The discussion continues with Wendy and Cardinals talking about their co-parenting experiences, including their current arrangement and how it has evolved. They share their thoughts on being single parents and the possibility of getting back together in the future, which they both agree is unlikely in the near term. They also discuss the impact of social media on their daughter, Valentina, and the importance of maintaining a healthy environment for her. Wendy expresses her feelings about Cardinals going on a podcast and exposing their personal issues, which she has not forgiven him for, and they both reflect on the digital footprint they are leaving for their daughter.

10:02

💔 Reflecting on the Past and Hopes for the Future

In the final paragraph, Wendy and Cardinals delve into what could have been done differently during their relationship and what they regret. They both acknowledge areas where they could have improved, such as spending more time together and showing more emotional support. They also discuss the current state of their lives, with Wendy stating she is not seeing anyone and Cardinals being more active on social media. The conversation ends with them reiterating that they are not together and not planning to get back together anytime soon, and Wendy encourages viewers to subscribe for more content.

Mindmap

Keywords

💡Q&A

Q&A stands for 'Question and Answer,' a format where questions are asked and answered, often used in interviews or informative sessions. In the video, Wendy and Cardinals engage in a Q&A to provide updates and clear up misconceptions about their relationship status.

💡Co-parents

Co-parents are individuals who share the responsibility of raising a child together, even if they are not in a romantic relationship. Wendy and Cardinals emphasize that while they are not back together romantically, they maintain a good co-parenting relationship for the sake of their child, Valentina.

💡Breakup

A breakup refers to the end of a romantic relationship. The video discusses the reasons behind Wendy and Cardinals' breakup, including irresponsibility and a lack of support, which led to a strained relationship and, ultimately, their separation.

💡Postpartum Depression

Postpartum depression is a type of depression that many parents experience after childbirth. Wendy mentions going through postpartum depression, which added to the challenges she faced during her breakup with Cardinals.

💡Single Parent

A single parent is someone who is solely responsible for raising a child without a co-parent present in the same household. Wendy talks about the difficulties and freedoms she experiences as a single parent, highlighting the contrast between her life now and when she was in a relationship with Cardinals.

💡Social Media

Social media refers to online platforms that enable users to create and share content or participate in social networking. The video touches on the topic of Valentina's presence on social media, with Wendy expressing her comfort with it while acknowledging the potential for encountering unsavory individuals online.

💡Co-parenting Schedule

A co-parenting schedule is an agreed-upon plan that outlines how time with a child will be divided between co-parents. Wendy and Cardinals discuss their current schedule, which has recently been one week on, one week off, but will change to weekends once Cardinals starts working again.

💡Digital Footprint

A digital footprint refers to the trail of data left behind by an individual's online activities. Wendy expresses concern about the digital footprint she and Cardinals are creating, particularly considering the impact it may have on their daughter, Valentina, in the future.

💡Podcast

A podcast is a digital audio program that individuals can listen to on-demand. Wendy mentions an incident where Cardinals went on a podcast and discussed their relationship, which Wendy felt was an exposure of their private matters and something she has not forgiven him for.

💡Love Language

Love languages are ways that people prefer to give and receive love, such as through words of affirmation, acts of service, receiving gifts, quality time, or physical touch. Wendy and Cardinals discuss their love languages and how they could have better expressed their love for each other during their relationship.

💡Regret

Regret is a feeling of sadness or disappointment over something that has happened or been done, especially when it involves a loss or a missed opportunity. Wendy and Cardinals reflect on whether they have any regrets about their past relationship and its outcome, with both expressing a sense of acceptance and growth from the experience.

Highlights

Wendy and Cardinals are doing a Q&A to update their audience on their relationship status.

They clarify that they are not back together but are good co-parents.

Cardinals admits he did not support Wendy when she was gaining followers.

Cardinals has never watched the breakup videos Wendy posted.

Wendy explains the reason for their breakup was due to Cardinals' irresponsible behavior.

Wendy was going through postpartum depression during their breakup.

Initially, their relationship after the breakup was strained with no communication for the first 6 months.

Cardinals apologized to Wendy after 6 months, aiming to mend their relationship.

Wendy enjoys being a single parent despite its challenges.

They discuss the possibility of getting back together in the future but not in the near term.

Co-parenting has been going well, with both Wendy and Cardinals prioritizing a healthy environment for their child, Valentina.

Their co-parenting schedule has been one week on, one week off, but will change to weekends once Cardinals starts working.

Wendy is comfortable with Valentina being on social media but is aware of the potential for negative attention.

Wendy went on a podcast to express her feelings about their breakup, which caused tension between them.

Both Wendy and Cardinals acknowledge the importance of considering their digital footprint, especially for their daughter's future.

Wendy is currently not in a relationship and addresses rumors about Cardinals being in many people's DMs.

They reflect on what could have been done differently in their relationship and express no regrets about their breakup.

Wendy emphasizes the importance of consistency in her content and invites viewers to subscribe for more updates.

Transcripts

00:00

hey guys it's Wendy and today I'm here

00:03

with my baby daddy

00:06

Cardinals So today we're going to do a

00:10

little Q&A I know you guys haven't seen

00:12

him in a really long time

00:16

so yeah this is just like a update and

00:20

just a disclaimer we are not back

00:22

together we're just really good co

00:24

co-parents I guess but yeah everybody

00:27

has been like speculating that we're

00:28

back together but we are

00:31

fact okay so I have a few questions it's

00:34

just going to be like a little

00:36

Q&A update type video so the first

00:40

question I have is for you and it's how

00:42

did you feel when I started getting

00:44

followers regardless of anything you

00:46

know I'm still going to support you you

00:50

know but when we were together you

00:53

didn't support me well it's

00:56

cuz yeah guys when we were together like

00:58

I would be like oh like let's like I had

01:00

like 10K followers but I would be like

01:02

oh let's film a Tik Tok let's do this

01:04

like can you do this and he's like no

01:10

so okay how did you feel when I posted

01:13

the breakup videos honestly you want to

01:16

know the truth I've never watched it oh

01:19

really yeah but how did you feel when

01:21

you saw like who told you or like how do

01:23

you find out well it's cuz well it came

01:25

out my friends first cuz they watched

01:28

your friends told you my friends told me

01:30

and they're like dang you actually like

01:32

[ __ ] up wait that's what they told you

01:34

those [ __ ] were talking [ __ ]

01:36

about me like weirdos oh my God but but

01:40

why haven't you watched it I can't

01:43

because it's emotional should we

01:46

do the [ __ ] should we do a reaction

01:48

video of the breakup just

01:50

kidding how okay why did we break up

01:55

why that's a good question I that is a

01:57

very good question you don't know

02:01

so guys basically I do have like a video

02:03

like an explanation video on YouTube so

02:06

if you want to go see it you can go see

02:08

it but um basically he was just hanging

02:11

out with his friends and he was spending

02:14

our

02:14

money I was just being un irresponsible

02:19

right oh you're smart I would have said

02:23

unresponsible basically yeah that's what

02:24

happened I have like a more indepth

02:26

reason but yeah we I was a being St yeah

02:31

and then I I was getting mad at him and

02:32

then I told him I remember when I got

02:35

mad at him I told him like oh go to your

02:36

mom's house as a joke and then he

02:40

actually went and then like from there

02:42

like he was doing dumb [ __ ] so we just

02:44

actually broke up like I didn't actually

02:45

want to break up I just wanted him to be

02:47

like oh [ __ ] like she's serious about it

02:50

but even like after 3 months he didn't

02:52

think I was serious I guess I don't know

02:55

yeah and guys it did take him like a

02:57

while like after

02:58

we the other qu like there's another

03:01

question asking how we have such a like

03:03

good relationship but after we broke up

03:07

um I was I was bad like I would just go

03:10

go to her house and be like just me mug

03:13

everybody yeah like she he wouldn't even

03:15

say anything like he would just drop off

03:16

antina and that's it and obviously like

03:19

I was going through postpartum

03:20

depression like I was going through a

03:22

breakup and everything yeah put your

03:24

head down just kidding I was like going

03:26

through everything so like him not even

03:28

saying hi or whatever like it really

03:29

like I know it made me more mad you know

03:33

I know and I'm sorry for that but I

03:35

wasn't educated on the postpartum stuff

03:39

also so this guy even if I didn't have

03:42

postpartum you don't like I know and so

03:45

for for a while we didn't have a good

03:48

relationship like we would we wouldn't

03:50

even argue like it was just oh we kind

03:52

of would so the first 6 months after our

03:55

breakup we were literally like we

03:56

wouldn't even talk we wouldn't even have

03:58

a conversation unless it was like for

04:00

while that you know so the first 6

04:02

months and then after

04:05

that that's where I apologized I it was

04:08

like after 6 months then he apologized

04:11

to me and then like we were kind of good

04:13

and like he only apologized to me to get

04:15

back together with me no I no no I did

04:19

not I said yeah no you wanted to get

04:22

back to okay but I said if we don't then

04:25

that's fine but I still want you wanted

04:27

that's why you wanted to get back

04:29

together no I but I didn't just get back

04:31

to I didn't just apologize to you just

04:34

because I wanted to get back

04:36

to because I feel

04:38

bad cuz I was being a

04:41

[ __ ] oh okay let me do this one how

04:44

is life as a single parent like guess

04:46

it's for both of

04:47

us

04:49

well on my side it's I I I love it it's

04:53

like no it's it's way different it's

04:56

difficult you know but you know you

04:58

learn to adapt to it

05:00

yeah for me honestly like I

05:03

like being a s single

05:07

parent you're basically saying you like

05:09

to be single parent cuz you like the

05:10

more

05:12

freom yeah I guess I I don't like being

05:14

a single parent but I like being

05:16

single obviously like being a single

05:20

parent is hard but being single is

05:25

not okay another question is will you

05:29

guys ever get back

05:32

together that's a good question maybe

05:35

later um honestly I think right now like

05:38

I I don't know I don't think I really

05:41

like forgave him for everything he's

05:42

done to us so maybe not right now but

05:45

maybe in like 20 years if we're both

05:49

single signal yeah but not not anytime

05:54

soon okay how has co-parenting been

05:58

co-parenting well it's been good you

06:00

know like sometimes we just we all all

06:03

three of us hang out with Valentina and

06:05

it's nice but overall I think it's going

06:09

good yeah um sometimes we do hang out

06:12

together like me valtina and him um and

06:15

it's healthy it's healthy for Valentina

06:17

so she won't grow up in like a bad

06:19

environment yeah so honestly recently

06:23

it's been going good cuz like how we

06:24

said in the beginning like we would

06:25

argue a lot or like we wouldn't even

06:27

talk so I feel like it is good that

06:29

we're just

06:30

like we're good you know so we could

06:32

have a healthy co-parenting relationship

06:35

and also another question is our

06:38

parenting our co-parenting schedule and

06:42

for the past like month it's been one

06:44

week one week but yeah that was cuz he

06:47

he didn't have a job at that time but

06:49

now he's going to start working so it's

06:52

it's going to start being weekends again

06:54

like how it used to be weekends yeah so

06:57

yeah weekends and honestly like weekends

07:00

well I kind of liked one week one week

07:02

cuz I feel like it that was like 50/50

07:04

you know but I do like the me weekday

07:06

and him weekends cuz it's like less time

07:10

without

07:12

Valentina the next question is how do

07:14

you feel about Valentina being on social

07:17

media I think it's cool I think it's

07:20

cool for me like I obviously like I

07:22

don't mind it cuz I do show you guys her

07:25

being on social media like I show you

07:27

guys but at the same time time like I

07:30

know there's weirdos out

07:31

[Music]

07:32

there oh yeah the juiciest question of

07:36

all why did you go on the podcast to

07:38

expose me I was just to be honest I was

07:42

just a little jealous a

07:46

bitter like yeah guys I still have not

07:48

forgiven him for that like I'm and

07:51

that's why like I also feel like I don't

07:53

want to get back together with somebody

07:54

who's able to do that to me but like I

07:57

do feel like most of the time we are

08:00

good cuz of Valentina you know like if

08:02

it were Valentina like I would yeah she

08:05

would I would just kidding but I don't

08:07

know that that was the craziest thing to

08:09

me ever like yeah I feel like looking

08:12

back at it now like I I should no and

08:15

the thing is like fun fact guys um I

08:17

don't know how I found oh I think the

08:19

guy that did the the interview went live

08:22

and he was like oh like I did an

08:23

interview with her baby daddy and I

08:25

didn't know anything about it so then

08:26

when I seen it I knew like he was going

08:28

to say some [ __ ] so then I called him I

08:30

was like don't post it like you better

08:32

[ __ ] tell him not to post it like

08:33

you're so dumb like you're going to ruin

08:35

everything like I told him and he still

08:37

posted it well it doesn't matter it was

08:40

just like it does matter but it does

08:42

matter but it does matter in the sense

08:44

that you have an excuse for it cuz I

08:45

don't care what excuse you have for it

08:47

but

08:49

um yeah guys that was just like a crazy

08:51

time yeah and then that do you know what

08:55

digital footprint is no oh yeah I I yeah

08:59

Valena is going to see

09:02

that yeah she's going to see this she's

09:05

going to see that she's going to see you

09:06

saying stuff on live like she doesn't

09:08

see everything so I do like I have been

09:10

trying to stay off live or like I guess

09:13

like say less things or do less cuz like

09:16

I have been realizing like everything I

09:18

say is going to come back to me

09:19

everything I do is going to come back to

09:21

me so and especially since I like if I

09:24

didn't have a daughter itd be

09:25

less like I'd be less worried but since

09:28

I do have a daughter like literally

09:30

everything is eventually going to come

09:32

back to her cuz she's my daughter you

09:34

know so I I have tried to like be

09:37

less out there I guess but [ __ ]

09:40

wants to put our business out there so

09:44

whatever oh are you looking today like

09:49

what are you do what's your love life

09:53

like well right now I'm not talking to

09:57

nobody nobody all the girls are going to

09:59

he's in my DMs no guys and that's what's

10:02

so embarrassing like he's in everybody

10:05

like people use it as a flex like he

10:07

this man is in everybody's de like do

10:10

not Flex like that's

10:12

not okay this is a good question do you

10:16

like how do you think we could have

10:17

worked out like what could have you what

10:20

could you have done what could I have

10:21

done well first of all I could have not

10:23

be done with my money with you could

10:25

have tried you could have took us out

10:26

you could have stopped hanging out with

10:27

your friends you could have prioritized

10:30

me and mytina you could have loved me

10:33

you could have been nicer oh sorry got a

10:36

little carried away

10:38

there I guess you said it on no I you

10:42

said it on no I could try it I could try

10:44

it better I could have tried more I

10:45

could have tried but how in what sense

10:48

like what what could have you like I

10:49

could have I could have cuz we wouldn't

10:52

go out because most of you couldn't me

10:54

we wouldn't go out well I could have

10:56

taken you out more I could yeah I could

10:58

have taken out more Tak you guys out

11:01

more got eat more

11:04

stuff oh okay we're giv no like no no no

11:08

because like no I feel like no no you

11:11

know how I you know how I you know how I

11:14

are no you know who I how I am you know

11:16

how you know what my love language is I

11:19

know but that if you weren't giving if

11:21

your love language is gift giving and

11:23

you weren't giving me anything no no no

11:24

no no no like like I no no cuz if you

11:28

needed something that would have got I

11:30

would gave you it okay what about

11:31

emotionally like what could have you

11:32

done oh like I could have hugged you

11:34

more I could have said I love you more I

11:36

cuz I would

11:38

it you would I would you know I did love

11:42

you I did but I just wouldn't show it I

11:45

wouldn't show it emotionally or

11:47

physically you

11:48

know and it wasn't because you were

11:52

pregnant oh do you so do you regret like

11:55

ever being me and you yeah cuz we would

11:59

have been

11:59

together now yeah honestly I don't I

12:02

don't I'm like I always try to think

12:04

like what would it be like if we were

12:06

still together but like I don't picture

12:08

it I feel like since you since we broke

12:12

up um you're broke I'm

12:17

up no no no no you wouldn't have gone

12:20

you wouldn't have gone to to meito you

12:22

wouldn't have gone meet JP would have

12:24

done all that if what you would have

12:27

that if we didn't break up

12:31

well I'm glad we broke up then yeah me

12:35

too I know we didn't really like planned

12:37

the questions out but I

12:39

hope I asked enough questions I know

12:41

like later on when I'm editing I'll be

12:43

like [ __ ] I should have asked this I

12:44

should have asked that but I think we

12:46

got every part of our relationship our

12:52

history we are not together we're not

12:54

getting back together anytime soon this

12:56

is not like a soft launch like

13:00

this is not my man this is your guys's

13:03

man this is all all the girls that were

13:05

saying he's in in your

13:08

DMs here take him but yeah guys we're

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not together um yeah but I hope you guys

13:16

like this video I hope um you guys like

13:20

how consistent I've been and if you want

13:22

to see more if you want to see the day

13:24

in my life then subscribe

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